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Archived questions from: February, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I friend zoned him, he is trying to be more, which annoys me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

28 February 2018 (F) - I have known this guy for 4 months, everything was good and we had a very good connection. After a while, he started falling for me, he confessed his feeling to me and he wanted a relationship. He was so desperate for my love which turned me off a ...

How should I react to this coversation between him and her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

28 February 2018 (F) - Ok, so I am going out with an older man, he is 16 years older than me(me 30 he is 46), divorced no children,we get along really well,and he treats me super nice,he is a gentleman and much more,we don’t have a lot of time of being together,yet we ...

He doesn't want children but I want one of my own

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - I feel like ive wasted my time , my boyfriend ( of 4 month) just blurted out he doesnt want kids .We havent talked about having any or any anytime soon. i dont know why he just said it , he already has 2 ( pre teen )but i always wanted one and he ...

My boyfriend still trying to get back with his ex but he can't love her! He gave me the ring

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - what should I do? So for the past few weeks I’ve been on here trying to get advice. Trying to figure out if I’m a rebound or not. A week ago he was still hitting up his ex trying to give her oral sex, as well as physical sex. She turned him down ...

I feel I’m investing more than him! Should I break up with him even though I don’t want to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy since a year now. I am in love with him and I know so is he. However, I am an extremely emotionally dependent human, unlike him. I have always felt like I am investing more in this relationship. But to think ...

I've accepted his past so why can't he move past mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - Hi I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly two months is 19. When we first met (a couple of months before we started dating) we spoke about our body counts. I've been with a few guys and he's been with a few girls, nothing major or too far, just as you'd ...

We struggle to communicate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - I have a question. I have trouble communicating with my boyfriend. We have problems and we are discussing them trying to work things out and find a solution. I tell him what the problem is ... simple example is I say he needs to work on his sle...

I don't understand his behaviour.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. I once got married and it already got annuled. My bf now is undergoing annulment. We've kniwn each other since we were i college but it never became us because of wrong timing. Everytime he'd be single, id have ...

How to convince my parents to let me date this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, first of all, I'll provide some information about myself. I am 19 years old and I'm in my second semester in University. I live on campus during the weekday and I'm home during the weekend with my parents. (Also, bear in mind, moving ...

My dad is a nasty drunk, his mom is deaf... How can I combine both our lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - I have been speaking to this guy for a while, we have recently made it official. He met my parents the other day, and my father, got really very drunk (he is a drunk, we’ve tried so many times to get him to stop but he just won’t) I am now worried ...

What just happened? He’s getting a new phone and said that was it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - I don't even know how to start this... 5 years ago, I was 18 he was 17, I met this guy I had been working with and at first it was nothing, at least to me. I noticed that he kept to himself a lot and something inside of me said talk to him. Mind you...

What does it mean when a guy still cares about how his ex feels while he’s with you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - What does it mean when a guy still cares about how his ex feels while he’s with you? Like when he sees she’s sad or not herself on social media he tells her things like “You know I got you, What’s wrong?”...

I have a new date but my ex has contacted me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - Im not sure what to do , last year i started seeing someone who had mental health problems i was very flexi with him and would fit in with him to make life easier for him. id only been seeing him once a week for 2 month he would go silent on me to ...

I think I might have scared her away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

24 February 2018 (M) - Hello everyone, Recently I got out of a long term relationship. It's been about 2 months and now recently got hired to a new job 16 hours away from home. So, with the break up going down, I figured I would give myself time to heal and a lot of peo...

Was I too keen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I went out with someone and I wasn't sure if it was a date or just friends. Partly this is because his whole manner is very formal and polite - although now and again he surprises me by doing things like swearing or he breaks through the politeness ...

My trust is in shreds and I don’t know how to move forward in this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do about my life and my relationship and I need some help and advice. So I have been with my partner for almost 5 years now. The first two years we're challenging for us, I found messages, images etc. on his phone ( I know I...

We've had 4 dates in 5 years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2469 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - Hiya I’ve been with my partner for 5 years now we have had problems throughout the relationship due to him we hardly spend any time together. we’ve been for 2 meals and to the pictures twice in 5 years. it’s like he doesn’t want to be seen with me....

He said he doesn't see it working out and doesn't want to waste my time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I went on a couple dates with a really nice guy. Our chemistry was great and he's got a winning sense of humor that I just really appreciate. Everything was on track and we scheduled a third. This date wasn't awesome. I guess I was having a rough da...

My boyfriend seems more interested in his XBOX than in me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2469 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and we have a really strong bond . Well we used to. He used to always text me and always call me and seemed to really care . But now when I need to talk to him he never answers because he’s on ...

My partner sleeps too much and it's irritating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - My partner works evenings, and he finishes work at midnight. I'm usually still up when he gets home around 12.15 and we go to bed shortly afterwards. Now, I get up around 9am (unless I am at university for the early lecture, then we both get up at ...

I'm still not over her after all these years but she has a 2 year old daughter and says she's done with dating. Should I still persevere?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

22 February 2018 (M) - So a little backstory… I've been crushing on this girl since high school and you could say I got hit hard. I never had the courage to ask her out; because it's high school she was way out of my league back then. I've put her in this pedestal...

How can I manage the balance between my relationship with sister and my love life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

21 February 2018 (F) - I am in a 6 months into a new relationship. We go out on dates pretty often and have even discussed potential out of town trips. I have a sister who isn’t single but her relationship is very unsteady. Whenever she and her mate argue or are feuding ...

My boyfriend's lack of initiative worries me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

21 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2+ years. I am his first serious relationship. Overall we have a good, caring, fun relationship. We are generally compatible in personality and values. He is caring, responsible and of good characte...

How soon should I contact her for a 2nd date after a great first date?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

21 February 2018 (M) - Hi , I'm a single professional guy of age 40. I met a cute/beautiful woman ( she is about 37) at a food meetup about 3 weeks back ( it was a group setting) I was sitting diagonally across he and we chatted quite a bit. I was definitely interest...

Should I message him and find out what’s wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

20 February 2018 (F) - So this is probably like the most unimportant question of all time but I seriously don’t know what to do. So basically I had been talking to this guy for a few weeks and it was going really well, we had a lot of cute banter and flirting and a really ...

Are all university boys so immature? Do I need an older, more mature man in my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

20 February 2018 (F) - I have recently broken up with my university boyfriend after a year of dating. His hobbies included smoking weed and playing video games, and he didn't go to his lectures or ever have any money. He generally was a caring person who I had lots of ...

What should I expect about finances, personal space and housework when we start living together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

20 February 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm gonna move in with my bf in couple.of months, we have been together for almost 2.5 years. I always lived alone or with my parents. So i'm not sure what to expect when we start living together like finances, personal space, house wor...

Is he weird or just desperate for telling his plans to me? We barely know each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

20 February 2018 (F) - Hello people, 2days ago I went on date with a man I met online his 44 years old with 4 kids from his partner who left him for another man.We chatted in a Cafe for 3 hours, but what was strange was that he was telling me all his faults like how he ...

How soon is too soon to fall in love?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

20 February 2018 (F) - I met a guy we're both in our 30s. He gave me his number once, i never called him and then a couple weeks later he approached me agian, we exchanged numbers and talked/texted all day. I think he's cool! The next day he asked me out. I said i wanted ...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend talks trash to me. Should I tell him that it hurts me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - I am pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. It was an accident. He wanted me to get pregnant tho. He was a player for a long time. He calls me names like whore, skank and bitch. He tells me to just deal with it. It's usually in bed but sometimes ...

I really like her, she's gorgeous but I'm not attracted to her. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - Hey everyone, I hope you're doing well. I have a question for you guys - if anyone has been in a similar situation, it would be great to hear how it worked out! I recently met a woman - maybe six weeks ago now. We started talking on a dating app,...

Are we wrong for seeing each other? Or is it just a complex situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - My dad had been going out with this girl, I met her friend's son, and instantly developed a crush on him which carried on through the years. My dad ended up dumping the girl he was with and getting with her friend, which was the mother of the boy I ...

I got accepted to a different college and don’t know how to tell him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - So.. my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years now and our senior year is going to come to an end soon. For the majority of our relationship, he had been living in a different city from me. We spent 3 years apart from each other and for ...

On our third date I felt like the third wheel! Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - I went out with this gent twice. First was a coffee date; good times he was civil we got along well. Mutual attraction so on so forth. Second date went out to dinner. We again got along well. HOWEVER he did mention more then once other girls he...

Should I ask him where our relationship is going?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - Hi all! Over the years, i find myself returning to this place whenever I’m in the need of a little advice. Hopefully this could be the last time lol... Okay, so I started dating this guy about 4 weeks ago. Totally took me by surprise, becaus...

I welcome opinions on if he is interested or not? Also why men play the three day game?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

18 February 2018 (F) - I am a female in her mid fifties. I have done online dating on and off for about nine years. I have a good job, a home, friends, hobbies, have been told that I am attractive, work out, intelligent, funny and best of all, have a big heart. I started ...

Always feel trapped getting in to a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

18 February 2018 (F) - So I’m trying to analyse my own behaviour a bit here. Until recently I’d been in a three year relationship with a man. He was a classical musician so worked away a lot. When we first got together it was this exciting touring lifestyle he had...

How do you ease into dating for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

18 February 2018 (F) - I'm curious as to how people ease themselves into dating for the first time. Especially if you're very hesitant about it. I'm 23 (almost 24), and have never dated or been approached for a date and believe me, I know that's my own fault. I tend to...

I want my parents to allow me to date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Hi all, I'll just start off by giving a little information about myself. I am 19 years old and just started my second semester in university. I come from a Chinese family where my parents are protective and always seem quite paranoid whenever I go ...

My boyfriend goes home goes out of contact for hours and doesn't get it that it bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Im frustrated with my bf. Hes been staying over at my apartment for almost the entire year. I go to med school about 5 hrs from where his dad lives. I like that he lives with me and we dont have many issues, except for every single time he goes ...

Too invested after a few dates?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - I’ve been on five dates with a guy. We slept together on three of the dates. We definitely fancied each other, but during date number four he said that his long term goal is to work away. I’ve been in a relationship in the past with someone who ...

LDR boyfriend seems to be spending more time with friends yet claims he wants more time with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year has me a little confused. We are moderately long distance - he lives about 2 hours drive away. For the past few weeks he's been saying how he misses me a lot (he does say this an hour after I leave his place though) an...

Is it ever okay to date a mates ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - Okay so there is this guy I work with (X) and I've always found him attractive but he dated one of the girls I work with (Y) that I'm mates with. I'm not best buds with her but we're pretty close. I've always seen him as off limits as he's her ex.. ...

He talks marriage but I think he is just using me for sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - So I was with a guy when I was younger we didn’t date but we would make out etc teenager stuff right (No sex) it lasted like 4 years so I consider it a relationship he ghosted me and then 3 years later came to see me and we talked made out etc he ...

My partner cheated on me, can we make it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - My question is simple. This is something I'm trying so hard to move past, for around the last 6 months now. I feel like I have progressed, but in real baby steps! Is it really possible to forgive and continue a relationship with someone who chea...

He didn't get me a present for my birthday or Valentine's Day

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I got into a huge fight, and in the end I decided to break it off with him because it was getting nowhere. Last year on my birthday, my bf didn't get me anything or take me out to eat anywhere. It was literally NOTHING. But I ju...

I don't have a partner, it makes me sad. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - I am 32 and single for nearly nine years. At this time of the year my loneliness feels suffocating and I’m finding it extremely difficult to cope with the fact that there is no telling whether I will spend the next nine years or more alone.Given my ...

I need tips on getting a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - How do I get a boyfriend? I'm lonely on Valentine's Day and I want to have someone to talk to and be in a relationship with. I want some pone who is like me and enjoys my hobbies. Do you have any tips or tricks to seem more open and approachable to ...

If he was keen on me wouldn’t he want to start a relationship? Even if long distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - I met a guy back in December in London. We matched online initially and then ended up meeting in person and became pretty much inseparable from the day we met. We spoke to each other every day and spend quite a lot of time together back end of ...

As much as it hurts badly do I need to cut guy 1 off to give myaelf time to get over him? And focus on guy 2?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - Dear Cupids! I am torn between two men in my life. Guy 1 and I dated for 7 months then he had to go back to Greece as his contract for work ended. Now we still chat long distantly it was hard and I broke it off with him. We still talk via Skype a...