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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend likes to make plans for us with or without me and it is driving me crazy (it's relevant that we live together). I say yes to much of what he suggests, but sometimes I just don't feel like going. He will suggest something in say, a week ...

My girlfriend spends a lot of time with her gay male friend who's almost always semi-naked. Should I be concerned?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 November 2013 (M) - My girlfriend often tells me how her male fried walks around the house purely in his underwear. I know this sounds petty but I can't help but let it bother me. I even went as far as to ask what kind of underwear...they're the tight boxer brief ...

Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me ...

Her lack of support in this situation is making me re-think dating her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 November 2013 (M) - HELLO EVERY ONE,well ive been seeing some one for acouple weeks, was ask over to her daughters house for thanksgiven, she lives their. Well every thing was going great, then her daughter ex husband showed up, invited, but with in five minutes he ...

I don't feel comfortable not being wanted around his friends and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year ive only met his mom once and that was when we first started dating. I've only met 3 of his friends. He won't take me around his mom or his other friends. He always says something like his mom ...

Why did he act so interested and then suddenly back off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Hi, There is a guy at work whom I have liked for a while. I am on a dating site online, and one evening, I saw a photo of a guy on this site and clicked on it, and it was this guy I work with ! Shocked at seeing his profile, I didnt initiate...

Can't attract guys at all! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Okay! This is going to sound so stupid but i'm facing 17 and I hate to admit it but I am clueless about how to attract boys and to flirt with them. I have had two un-sucessful relationships and the only way they cam...

A guy told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend and while I know it's a lie, it's still bothering me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - A bloke came up to me in my local the other night and told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend for the past 4 months. He explained that she was waiting for the right time to tell me it's over.I just burst out laughing at the thought of my ...

I feel like I am not part of my boyfriend's life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating a guy for around 6 months. During this time we have seen each other at weekends and once during the week. To begin with this was fine, but now I am starting to feel this relationship is stalling. We have a great sex...

Why does my boyfriend look up his ex's at least once a week?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - Is it normal that my boyfriend looks up all his exes and sometimes just girls that he has kissed/had flings with on facebook? It's once a week ish usually! I never do that!! He is a big thinker he thinks about everything - his mind is always g...

My ex went off on me because I'm seeing his married friend. I don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - where do i start its a long story , iv been trying to get a hold of my x for the longest time we did not part well, anyway we had been together for 4 yrs friends befor that so finly did reach him we stared talking again he said he would come and ...

Why am I meeting so many black men who freeload off women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - I am a recently divorced white woman who has been dating black men for about a year and a half. Why am I meeting so many black men who freeload off women? Now mind you, not all of them are. But the ones that do.... Not only do they have no shame in ...

I'm in a huge mess...and I have no idea what to do now!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - So there's a long story to this one. I like this girl that I volunteer with. She's three years younger than me and she's an EMT, I'm a firefighter and EMT driver. We both ride the same nights and have been friends for three or four years now. We ...

I'm in limbo waiting for him. How long should I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - I met a really lovely guy of 48 who is has been separated for three years. He says he couldn't afford to buy his ex out as he has a business and house. When we met 8 months ago he reassured me it was at the final stages and amicable. I have waited ...

Can you have as many doubts as me but go on to be happy further down the line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years and things have been a bit rocky at times if I'm honest. However things are going much better at the moment, and he has recently asked me to move in with him. The problem is I ...

I think my boyfriend of 7 months still has feelings for his ex girlfriend even though he says he doesn't.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I think my boyfriend of 7 months still has feelings for his ex girlfriend even though he says he doesn't. They broke up about a year and a half ago. I feel this way because he is still friends with her even though she treated him ...

Are my dating rules really too strict?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - Here it goes again:(. My mother just had a conversation with me that I have too many rules when it comes to guys, and that's why I don't have anyone in my life. Some of my friends agree,I am looking for some opinions here. Though I do ha...

What is your partner like when angry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 November 2013 (M) - I've been in a relationship for over a year and a half now and I'm curious about everyones experience with how your partner or ex partners reacted when angry. for whatever reason. deserved or not. Here are a few situations I often find myself in. ...

Is this possible in this day and age for a guy to concentrate on one woman and be sexually obsessed with her? Because I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me... My ex boyfriend was a porn addict who told me I couldn't be a model as I'm just an ordinary person. These words haunt me, he's made me believe I'm a lesser. It's let to me having...

Next time we are intimate, how can I relax more and any tips on how I can please him without full intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - Hi I am in a new relationship with a guy. The thing is I am a virgin and this is my first serious relationship. We are taking things slow and I am not ready to have sex yet, which my boyfriend understands. Last weekend, we were intimate...

I'm dating again haven't had sex in a year and am feeling insecure about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - Hi folks, So I've just recently boarded the dating plane once again. I've been single for a year and a half (after coming out of a messy 3 year relationship) and I've starting casually seeing this guy from my work. We only started seeing e...

So scared of him getting bored of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I've been in several relationships before but I am his first girlfriend, his first kiss, and he says I'm the first and only girl he's ever loved. Even though I've had many boyfriends before, ...

He's great but I just don't feel anything for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, My boyfriend and I been going out for a month now, we are both 18, we don't argue, he treats me nice but he's not really the romantic type, he's really nice and sweet, but I feel like there's something missing I just don't have ...

Should I stop flirting and let my friend have him since she's been dying for her first bf for ages? Should I tell my friend I like him too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 17 and I have a crush on a boy 3 months my younger (I don't usually opt for youngers I think its weird). He's in the RAF and he's a very funny, mature and caring guy who makes me smile. The only problem is that one of my friends likes him too. ...

No feelings for my new boyfriend and I think I'm in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hi i have been in a relationship for 10 weeks now my boyfriend says he adores me the problem is i have no feelings for him even though i have tried and tried i feel to guilty to split up with him though we were friends for 3 years before and we ...

I'm dating a new guy, but I just can't seem to let my ex go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4051 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I was dating a guy who I fell head over heels with for 3 months. Things were really awesome in the beginning and then they started to fall apart because I kept pressuring him to put a title on the relarionship. Long story short we broke up a little ...

Is there really ever a good time to break up with someone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I've been dating someone for 3 months who has started to get clingy and needy. He's a very nice man and has many wonderful qualities but he is way more into this relationship then me. I'll give some examples of his needy behavior: He tex...

Do I fear women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I have a question, and maybe you can give me a bit of insight. I am a 21 year old straight male, and I am going to step out on a limb here and say that I am very attractive. The only reason I say that is because I don't think I am, but many lad...

How do I move past this jealousy? I want to be happy for him but can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4051 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2.5 years. Last summer he broke up with me, we spent 5 weeks with no contact and then decided to meet up again. We chatted for hours and eventually kissed. We talked over all the issues w...

I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...

Boyfiend Won't Spend Christmas with Me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months now. We're very close, get along great, and he's met my family (extended family included) and seemed to like all of them. However, last week I asked him of he had plans for Christmas. He said no ...

Is my B/f looking for his ideal woman? Or does he just see women with long platinum blond hair as some sort of porn object?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - If my boyfriend sees a woman with platinum blond hair, he just goes into a sort of trance-like state and fixates on her. The woman often is just average-looking, but because her hair is long and platinum blond, he just gets stirred inside. Why is ...

My ex seemed to get too close. Does he still have a thing for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4051 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Basically, my friends and I went to this event called Midnight Rodeo. It's a country place/bar where you dance two-step and things like that. It was for my friend's birthday party; she went to drink for her 21st birthday so we separated once w...

Tips on how to flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4052 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I know this is a bit lame, but I need to know how to flirt with a guy. I have been out of a long term relationship for 6 months now so this is like back to basics/ new to me. I was at a bar tonight and was instantly attracted to the bartender. I...

1st date with this guy giving me mixed signals

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Hiya! Recently went on a date with a guy last Saturday via online dating. We had a good flow of conversation on the site, not obssessive, then we exchanged numbers. The date was great, I could tell he was a bit nervous but once he saw me I could t...

How to show interest in a classy, lady-like way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - A Friend of mine has introduced me to a chap very gently, then they kind of tried to set me up so he'd have time to chat me up. I was supposed to meet her at a cetain place and a certain hour, and he happened to be there while she was gone! she did ...

Help catching up with dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

25 November 2013 (M) - My dad recently passed, and we were never close, never heard his take on gitls, dating in general. Where things like this easily could've been picked up in school(I didn't even go to a college where you live on campus, maybe I would've grown there), ...

Pregnant and my boyfriend messages his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly two years has been texting his ex behind my back, I caught him at a glance by seeing her name on Facebook I said nothing but when he was sleeping I looked the messages are harmless when sober but some are when he was drunk and ...

My boyfriend tells his best female friend that she is pretty and they talk about graphic sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for around six months now and we are very happy. He has a female best friend that he is very close to and says how much he loves her. He openly admits they talk about sex quite grafically and tell eachother when they ...

Traits of the zodiac signs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - anyone good with zodiac signs! Can you tell me about Sagittarius men and women! What there traits are, what there sexual traits are, what sagittarius men like in a women, what are sag men and women lile in bed? Just please tell me anything you know ...

Am I being taken for a mug? Should I be less intrusive? Am I too young to play the 'stepmother' figure? Can my feelings for this man actually get past all of these issues? Should I demand more from life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Hi, I recently (about six months ago) got with a new boyfriend who has a three year old child. I just want a bit of advise: He moved/ separated from his ex (mum of the child) about ten months ago and moved into his own place. 1. He still ha...

She treats her friends better than me. I'm tired of doing all the giving. Time to end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

25 November 2013 (M) - Hello Guy, I need some help. I'm a 24 year old young man who's about to finish up college in May. I'm at a point where I'm trying to make the decision to cut certain people out of my life because I don't need any unnecessary stress. This inc...

I have a chance to be with someone nice and I don't seem to want it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

25 November 2013 (M) - I'm sitting here and i hope that i can get some advice as i don't know who to ask. I'm 26 and apart from a 3 year relationship, i'm just being honest, i have been with a lot of women. I look after myself and am good looking and i love going out t...

LDR--am I just being a lonely jealous girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been best friends for several years. We met online back in 2011 and were just good friends, later that year we finally met and knew we were both interested in each other. He lives in Iowa and i'm in minnesota. We were off and ...

Why do girls like jerks?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Why do girls typically go for the douchebags, and typically grody asshoke frat boys that spend 5 days a week in the gym? To me it seems like the only difference between a jerk asking and any other guy is that the prick, because of his false sense of ...

His questions are making me uncomfortable -- am I just being paranoid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Why do I feel this way about him? Am I being paranoid? I've been seeing this guy my friends husband set me up with. They say good things about him all the time and he seems nice so far. I starting a well paid job in a few months and h...

So what's going on? Has she lost interest?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - I met this girl on a dating site. Well, a woman. She is 38. I am 39. We went out for drinks a week ago and ended up kissing. Before the date we'd been emailing every day, and after the date (Friday) I wasn't sure how long to wait, but I sent her a ...

Do you think he might be a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) - Hi folks, I go to this club to sing and I have a lot of friends there and enjoy spending time with them. There are a few guys and women I talk to, all different ages and one girl there is my friend and she is much younger and has a new bo...

I care about him, but not the way he wants. What are my options?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) - Hi everyone, There is this guy I've been talking to and we have just been texting back and forth but we have never actually met. He has been coming on strong telling me that he is in love with me and that he wants me in his life. He wants to meet me ...

Gf and I broke up a year ago, been single ever since. Am I getting too desperate for attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys basically split up with my girlfriend over a year ago after 4 years together I was devastated and still am not healed, I have slept with 4 girls since then and tried to turn them into relationships but the spark was never there so it turned ...