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My girlfriend wants me to chat with her friends, but I'm not comfortable doing that. What should I do?

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Question - (11 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *oveDrunk 3 writes:

Ok me and my girlfriend been dating for 3 months now and lately things have been feeling off... At school she wants me to sit with her and her friends but I don't say nothing when I'm around them and she doesn't like that..matter fact she hates it! What should I do? She tells me the problem, I just can't seem to do it?

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A male reader, mason361 Canada +, writes (11 May 2011):

mason361 agony auntI hear you man, it happens to the best of us.

See, the way I see it. You aren't with her friends, or with her FOR her friends. You are with her because you care about her, and have the courage to make your relationship something more.

But what she asks is normal. She wants you to be liked by HER friends because it will make it easier for her friends to understand the rough times you guys could go through.

I believe you should start with something small here, like... the weather for example. Or maybe even how your last class was or something. Try to bring up something you did over the summer, or maybe what you'd like to do this summer.

Hope this helps man!

Chin Up, She will love and accept you regardless

Mason

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