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writes:hi girls!I want to understand how to talk to girls in a way that the girls really appreciated. What do I say, how do I say it? Some men seem to be able to charm girls whatever they do. But I am not sure how they do it.What do would classify as 'sweet talk'? Why do women like men (Her beloved in particular) to sweet talk to her?Do you women get bored at some point of this sweet talk?Do some women dislike sweet talk and if so how do women like to be spoken to? Reply to this Question
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reader, yazanco +, writes (11 May 2011):
yazanco is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey there and thanks for your answers, i didn't mean to flirt or sweet talk a woman i am looking forward to be in bed with her, i am talking about my fiancee, she likes sweet talk too much, once i start praising her she becomes too happy and excited, what it is the secret behind her happiness?
i asked her she says i love the way you sweet talk to me!!
but i believe there is a hidden thing in women psychology behind it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): There is nothing you can say that will charm all women away! We are complex for the simple reason that what works for one doesn't necessarily work for the rest, we can't say all women like been sweet talked, I know I don't. I actually hate it, it makes me feel like someone has just written a manual that says what women want to hear., and gave it to all men, it all sounds the same and its allways the same bolloxs drinks flattery, a million of complements. It tents to get boring very quick, I am not saying it doesn't work, I am saying its just basically telling a girl what she wants to hear to smooth her over. It's not worth your time to explore that option try to find a more individual way to win a lady over, something more personal way to start a conversation, like treating them as a single person rather than a collective.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 May 2011):
 This isn't as straight forward as you hope it is. There's no such key to open the door to the secrets of sweet talking, chatting up women, or flirting in general. It is a skill you learn through practice or by natural talent.
Sweet talk as far as I'm aware is bullshit a guy makes up to get a girl to bed. In my experience most women don't like this and see right through it, unless they are stupid. But of course, I could have gotten the wrong idea.
My advice to you: learn how to flirt in your own way instead of trying to figure out some "secret" to how to talk to women. There is no secret. You open your mouth and speak to her, and if you can make her laugh all the better.
I also want you to be honest with yourself about what your goal is. Do you want to get women to sleep with you, do you want casual hook-ups, or do you want a girlfriend, or do you just want to get to know women because you are shy and don't dare to speak to them? Or you think they ignore you? What is your goal, what do you want?
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