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female
age
41-50,
*ellaflor77
writes:My ex boyfriend, who is a married man now, is helping me to find a job abroad. He lives in another country. Sometimes he has written to me that he feels sorry for me not living there. He said I hope you and your family are doing well in these turbulent times.He has gotten a job for me at his workplace. We don't have children in common. So I will move to his country.When he writes emails to me he is very secretive, he even deletes my name from them.I did not ask him for his help, he let me know he wanted to help through a common friend.Do you think it is ok for him to help me? His wife doesn't know about this.The job offer is so good that I can't reject it.When I got the official job offer he congratulated me and said it was well deserved.
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (1 June 2011):
 There is nothing wrong with business networking and if it works out thats good for you. Congradulations on the job.
This secrecy on his part is very troubling indeed. Would you be working simply at his company or within his specific department?
Please keep your eyes on what is going on around because you can easily find yourself in the middle of some drama that you really don't need.
The wife is going to pick up that you and he had a relationship if you all meet at some point - women can smell that kind of tension. Just be prepared because somehow somewhere something is bound to come up regarding you and he's past.
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