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writes: A mutual attraction developed between me and a Carpricorn man that I used to work with. Nothing happened but he was the one who initiated all the indirect flirting and the staring and the prying personal information out of me.I left the company nearly a year ago and I have not been able to forget about him. I have done research on Capricorn men and have discovered that they can be shy and like a women to make the move on them. When I left, he knew I liked him as he said some thing to acknowledge this.I have spoken to him on a few occasions but mainly for business purposes. Our paths are no longer crossing unless I intentionally bump into him as I have before, but felt embarrass that I have to do this.He has my e-mail and telephone number but I feel he will not make a move as he is unaware that I am available (he knows I have a family).I am due to start a new job shortly (he was quite impressed by it - cabin crew) and I was planning on calling him to thank him for his help as I used him as a referee. I was planning on trying to push things on here maybe suggest coffee or something. (I hate doing this as I feel men should do the pursuing. I find this very difficult. I do not want to e-mail as I only have his work e-mail and I do not want to keep calling him as I have to go through the switchboard. All the staff know me and when I was there, I feel rumors of our attraction were growing amongst the staff placing both of us in an awkward position.Any advice in relation to how Capricorn men like to be pursued will be helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): Capricorn hate games. Supposed to be practical too. I happen to be attracted to someone and I am leaving it to her, because of her situation. Otherwise, I'd be in HOT pursuit. Put the games aside. If you are free and you think he likes you, just ask him for coffee. Once he sees a green light, you might get more pursuit then you bargained for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks - Good point! He does not know that I am available or that I still think about him. Next time I get a chance - serious flirting and clear statements :)
I find astrology amazing. He fits his star sign perfectly and it helps me to understand why he acts in certain ways. Have a go!
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (31 May 2011):
*sigh*
Obviously you're free to believe what you want to, I personally believe in dragons, leprechauns and unicorns, but can I ask why you believe this stuff enough to affect how you're planning to tackle this situation...
He's a guy, its going to take time to figure him out and how best to seduce him, but I'd say the absolute first thing to do would be to let him know that you're actually available.
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