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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hello :) so there is a guy in the year above at school and i see him around every now and then. I like him aswell. I see him in the hallways and stuff and he smiles at me and i smile back etc. But i have never spoke to him and i am WAY to nervous to go and talk to him myself. Is there any subtle ways to get him to talk to me? Most people will probably say 'Go talk to him yourself' but i am too worried i will embarrass myself to actually go and speak. At lunch we eat in different rooms so we cant eat together, but he goes up the field to play football. I started getting my friends to go up with me and sit down on the field near where he is playing and chat. (they dont know i like him, they will tease me haha :)) When i see him looking at me (which is alot) i smile at him again.But he wont come over and talk to me....mybe he just doesn't like me?is there any way i could get him to come over??thankyou :) xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2011): Hi again :) not sure how to reply so im going to do it this way :D
When i wrote me question, it was in the school break. We came back to school this week, and he has been acting kind of strange. I said before the break he was smiling at me alot, well now when i see him, i see him look at me and look away. He just blanks me out. He doesnt show any emotion towards me at all.
Now is this his way of trying to make me jealous, or has he just gone off me? I haven't had a chance to talk to him yet so im not sure what to do as it may seem kind of strange if i just go up to him and say "hey, is there something wrong?" :S
thanks for the earlier replies btw :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): This article may help you out a bit: http://ezinearticles.com/?Women---How-To-Make-the-First-Move&id=5999725
Basically it talks about how to make the first move without him knowing that you are doing it (meaning you don't have to worry about embarrassing yourself)and he will most likely approach you once he has the 'All clear!' signal he's looking for.
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