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writes:I'm pretty, smart, a talented artist, funny, and down to earth (according to me,) but I can't get a boyfriend for the life of me! I have dated lots, but either I'm not interested, or we go out a few times and then the dude disappears. In my 27 year old life, I've only had one boyfriend that lasted a year, and that was two years ago. And it wasn't serious. Other than that, I've been a single person. I'm starting to really hate it, and am super lonely especially since my friends are all in a ltr, engaged, or married. I want to meet someone and be in love, but I can't seem to find anyone at all. How is it so easy for some people to find love and not for others? I'm starting to get kind of depressed about it, but I keep my head up and still get out there and meet people. I do have standards, but they aren't crazy high. My last bf was no prize. So what's the deal? Why am I forever single? I'm starting to think there is something I'm doing without realizing it, but I have no clue what it could be!
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (31 May 2011):
Sometimes, when you seek it, you cannot find it. I had a hard time getting girlfriends in the past but it was ALWAYS when I told myself "screw it" and stopped worrying about getting a girlfriend that I got one. Perhaps you are thinking about this too much? Believe me, it sucks being lonely. Like I said, I used to have a hard time getting girlfriends before I got married and I hated it. Sad to say, but even trying to go pick up girls for one nighters was out of the question. I think that part of my personality was written out of my destiny, so to speak. It's all good, it happened.
I have also heard some say that when you are really content being alone, it'll happen. Perhaps that's just a different way of saying what I said above. Good luck with this, sounds like you'd be a hoot. Someone who realizes this will come along....
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reader, tombola  +, writes (31 May 2011):
this question of yours is the same to mine.when i meet someone either i hurry everything or i put my points on her . everytime my tryal have been making me looser. right now what i have decided is that i'm wait for any girl to ask me for it and then as soon as i meet her i'm going to make her happy of her life. what i'm advising you is that don't put yourself in hurry, wait for someone then treet your love and the man aswell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): i was in a same situation like yours where i couldnt find a man to call my own, and i was in and out in relationships, but i got tired of that nonsense and started dating girls coz all i was looking for was happiness....and guess what i am still in a relationship, maybe its time to start new things..
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