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Should I have looked at boyfriend's facebook because he forgot to log out?

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Question - (31 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *ovemeright11 writes:

Maybe this is a stupid question but is it wrong of me to take a peek at my boyfriends facebook when he left it logged in by mistake? I guess it was more out of curiosity but I did leave him a silly message telling him to make sure he logs out next time. Should I let him look at mine if it does upset him or just apologizes? I know this is not the end of the world but I just wanted some opinion.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011):

You should have fraped him properly OP. That's what I did last time my girlfriend left her facebook open. She does the same to mine too.

I got a picture of a homeless person and photoshopped her head onto it and put it as her profile pic. Then I changed her sex to male, put her birthday as the day after and changed her employment to 'prostitute' it was great fun. She got lots of comments at people laughing knowing what happened but didn't notice I changed her birthday and she got tonnes of happy birthdays the next day, from random people. Good fun haha.

Last time she got me, she put a picture of me and and a friend of mine out drinking, changed my interest to 'men' and my employment to sailor and put "Hey boys, no more closet for me, I'm ready to set myself free" as my status.

Don't worry about it OP, next time put up a nice funny status.

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A male reader, idoneitagain Australia +, writes (31 May 2011):

Technically yes it isn't right to look unless he has given you his permission, it is private, but you weren't sneaky about it and you let him know by sending him the message that you had seen it. It is also his responsibility to keep his private world private, and if he leaves it logged on it isn't really private is it? It is his mistake, but having said that you know it is intended to be private, and knowing that, it isn't right to look.

Having looked at something of his private world does not obligate you to share your private world with him, you don't have to show him yours, but if I were in your position I would offer an apology. If I were in his position, I would be ok.

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A female reader, Tina turner United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2011):

I always look in my boyfriends facebook and emails doing so aloud me to find out he had slept with another woman broke my heart but if he has nothing to hide he won't mind you having a look throughout it my boyfriend always wanted to check mine I wrote my email and password down for him to checkbit wheneva e wanted facebook ruins relationships that's my honest opinion x

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