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writes: I recently met this boy (past few weeks) and I am beginning to really like him. He's very shy and quiet or at least he seems to be, occasionally I see another side to him. Anyway we started talking fairly regularly (in person and facebook). Generally I always start talking to him. Then he messaged me and asked for my number, which I was really happy about - so we've texted a couple of times and it's very normal stuff 'what have you got planned this weekend?' etc. But now I feel like there's less of a connection between us. In the past he seemed to care about my presence. Now it feels like he doesn’t as much, but I don't know if it's because he's just that shy and maybe he's started to like me? (Maybe)More recently I heard another girl ask him 'how’s you and (other girls name, not mine)?'. I was sitting next to him and he and didn't say anything just 'fine... thanks' in a disappointed tone. I thought about telling him I like him until this moment. I have tonnes of exam work and exams to do and wanted to tell him after (in about 3 weeks) but now I don't know whether I should if there's another girl.I’m really confused as to what i should do and it makes me quite sad since I thought he liked me when he asked for my number. What does it sound like to other people? Should I tell him? I don’t want to look like an idiot.
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reader, BJacobs  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 He might think you just want to be friends instead and thats why he hasnt continued to communicate at the rate that he had before, Because like you said it was just normal conversations. So im with the others, go for it tell him you like him. But your main concern Should be school, if all that is in order I wouldnt hesitate.
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reader, N91  +, writes (30 May 2011):
 As CaringGuy said, take the chance, you should definately tell him how you feel.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 May 2011):
Tell him - you won't know if you don't, and even if he doesn't like you that way, you'll be able to move on knowing you tried. That's a lot better than spending the rest of your life wondering 'what if'.
I say tell him and go for it.
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