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writes:Hi:I'm offering this tip because an article would take up way to much space, whereas, what I want to offer is all over the place, free and quite simple to use, in my opinion.My tip is: google relationship tips or relationship skills or go to a book store or library and get started learning some simple, obvious and quick methods, skills, and techniques to improve your relationship knowledge and skills.IMO, most folks fail miserably at relationships because they just don't KNOW HOW to make it good and we are seldom taught how at home by our parents and others.In my experience, it has taken many years to finally come upon and acquire the relationship information I wish I'd had long ago and it's WORKING for us. Now that we know, it all seems so very simple and obvious. This is our 2nd marriage but this time it's good and getting better all due to finally KNOWING HOW.Do your self a favor and look into these tips for a wonderful, happy, satisfying relationship. Otherwise, pass it by and stay miserable... it's your choice and opportunity to finally learn how to be happy or just stay miserable and hurting like many folks!Good luck making it work,Jim :)
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reader, jimrich +, writes (23 September 2010):
jimrich is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDorthy:
That's a good list and will most likely help a lot of folks. I offered no specifics because I want others to do their own work and go look at relationship info on their own. I could have written a very long, multi page list like yours but it would only be a fragment of the total picture and I believe folks need to see as much as possible to fix their situations.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (14 September 2010):
Hi there. Yes, I agree there is a lot of good books and websites about relationship tips. Some very helpful stuff out there.
* One of the very important things I have discovered over the years, is to maintain your own friends and hobbies and interests, so life doesn't get too boring.
* Don't lose your own identity.
* Don't become emotionally dependent on each other.
* Give yourself some time (on a regular basis), to do the things that bring you joy.
* Don't elevate the other person above yourself in importance.
* Make yourself happy. It's not up to your partner to make you happy. We are each responsible for our own happiness.
* Also, its important to give each other some space. Have some time apart to pursue your interests - not too much time, say once a week for a couple of hours only.
* Being supportive of each other and never critical.
There are I know many, many more things that are also just as important.
Best wishes for the future. Take Care.
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