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writes:I have had some of the greatest relationships but wonder if I am incapable of love. Guys get really attached to me and I dont know I cant get into the love part of the relationship. I get “blaséd about the whole thing. I wonder if it is because there is maybe just one thing missing or if I just am insensitive. I am known a determined, full of life, and that I have a heart of gold. Somebody tell me something try to give me some insight on why I am so monotone about love - I pretend well but am sort of tired of saying words that I partly mean. Whatis the trick to letting yourself fall in love. Or is it something really that takes time!!! Help Please!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 April 2010):
Maybe you are setting your standards too low.
If you go out with guys that are very sweet and ask you out, but don't feel anything for them but friendship and flattery, then it's no wonder you are not feeling it.
Have a think about what kind of things your DREAM Prince Charming has to have. Is he successful, is he an artist, is he sporty, is he rough or smooth?
Figure out what you WANT in a man and then go out looking for him and turn down anyone who doesn't turn your world upsidedown.
Good Luck!! xx
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