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writes:can anyone tell me how to ask out a girl? i know this sounds stupid, but i mean i havnt asked out anyone only been the one asked out. i really dont no how since if i try talking to girls i become a good friend to them but i wanna ask them out before this happens. i just wanna know how to since you dont just go up to them and ask do you wanna go out. or do you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): Girls LOVE confidence. My advice would be just to not think about it if you see a girl you like it is ok just to go up and ask her out, but its about the way you do it, what you say! A girl knows when shes recieving a chat up line and if its a cheesy one it can achually become laughable.
Don't just walk straight over to where she is just to talk to her act like your going over there to do something, soomething similar to what shes doing. anything thats in the area where she is like if theres a vending machine or something for example go and use that and as you walk past maybe give her a smile, if she smiles back carry on what you were doing then once your done start a conversation. Girls like compliments but sometimes the ones you guys use arent neccessarily the best types. don't say you think she hot! thats a big no no that just sounds like you'd like to get into her pants. Tell her that out of all the girls here she really caught your eye, and that you'd love to take her out sometime. smile as you say it, look her in the eye. DON'T be nervous, body language is important a girl can tell when your not comfortable..
And if your lucky you might just leave with her number x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): Well this is how i usually do this. Well ill give some tips. First of all make sure you have a friend to friend relationship atleast and maybe when you are talking like in the hall ways of school preferably after school walk with her and maybe ask her " Hey me and a friend are going to the bowling alley this weekend do you want to come bring a friend " this what it will kind of avoid awkwardness at the bowling alley that sometimes happens with just you and her.
Maybe ask for her number so you can contact her on which bowling alley your going to and what time and day.
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