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writes:heya,I am pretty confident and love to have a laugh. Sometimes i feel like im really not popular with boys and if i am, its because they want me as a friend. They seem to love all the slaggy girls who will do anything for them. There is this girl in my year who whenever im hanging around with a boy, will just simpley but in and walk off with them. I really do want a boyfriend and am up for the whole school romance thing. I get on a lot with everyone but dont really have very close friends, only 1 or 2.. i just wish i was popular and had all the boys after me. I dont wear millions of make up but wouldnt want to change myself dramatically. Please help.. how can i make boys interested in me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): These guys just want ONE thing and once they get it, they move on to the next easy target. Rise above that and wait until you find a guy who likes you for you and not just for sex. These girls may "get" the guys, but then they also might end up pregnant, with STDs and/or heartbroken because the guys will have dumped them. They think they NEED to sleep with guys in order to be liked, but sadly this is not the case. Being friends with guys is perfectly fine too. You can still playfully flirt or joke around with them. Don't do anything you don't want to do just to attract a guy- those guys aren't worth it anyways. Wait for someone who you care about who cares about you back. It's worth the wait!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): Your at the age where it is very easy to take the wrong road, give into peer presure and have sex. these slaggy girls are not good rolemodels and are probably very insecure and feel the need to have sex with whoever propositions them purely for ATTENTION. You will learn as you get a bit older that this attention they are trying to get is not the good kind. wearing loads of makeup does not make somebody attractive. if you wear a bit then it will improve your complection and exaggerate your best features if you wear too much you end up looking a bit of a state especially if it is applied wrong. Boys and men alike will find naturally beautiful girls far more attractive than slappers with far too much makeup on. these boys chase after these girls because they are young,horny and to put it bluntly..gagging for it and these girls will give it to them. these boys will never take these girls seriously and they will remain only good for ONE THING. carry on being you, don't fall into the same catagory as these girls you describe as 'slaggy' once you get a name for yourself it is very hard to get rid of. xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 February 2010):
You don't want to attract these guys. They are only using the other girls because they are out there doing anything for the guys. Keep your self respect and just continue to be yourself. You'll meet a far better guy who won't use you.
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reader, lil ladyy +, writes (9 February 2010):
 i think eveyone wants that honey wen i was in schoool i was allways the mate to the guys and they liked the gals in make up this stag will soon pass and wen they wnt a real relationship there cum to you i juz left it and gt a bf out of school ...
anyway now im in collage im the mate to all the guys and the one that they want soo just be urself and soon anuff it will cum bk were they will want u for who u are soo just wait your time will come ....
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