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*urious26
writes:So I met this guy a week ago. We hungout Sunday night and Tuesday night. He's 35 has a 10 year old. He's been divorced for a couple of years. When I left his place Wednesday morning he said he would be in contact soon. Well I know that he does have his daughter Wednesday through Sunday. I texed him friday saying I hope your having a good day but he didn't reply. Should I think he isn't interested? Or is it that he's had his daughter and that's why he hasn't called? I need help!!!
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reader, curious26 +, writes (9 February 2010):
curious26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I'm not sure what I would say if I did call? Everyone I know has advised me to not call...I just feel like if a guy is really interested he will call and pursue me. I don't like pursuing men because when I have done so in the past it never works out...its just weird cuz last time I saw him we stayed up till 2am telling each other stories he even told me about his brother and his gf as if I would meet them someday its just really confusing...
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (9 February 2010):
 What kind of a man is he? really! and why is it so scary? Your just setting yourself up to fail if you fear that opportunity. Look just do what your heart tells you, if you like him call him. It's the least you can do. If you don't let it be and move on... It's his loss anyway.
The most important thing for you is that you will have tried and if you try you will have no regrets later.
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reader, curious26 +, writes (9 February 2010):
curious26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I'm afraid to call because I don't wanna seem desperate or like a stage 5 clinger...the last woman he dated was a psycho stalker and I don't want to scare him...
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reader, Griffo +, writes (9 February 2010):
Yes, it could be he is busy with his kids. But if you like him why don't you call him? don't worry about the text message. Call and leave a nice voice message. Hearing your voice is more intamate and personal than a text message.
Try leaving it open ended as though he could be missing out on something really special. That way you will have no regrets if he does not call you back. Try to bring up something that made you both laugh on the date and then something intimate followed by the open end. try not to sound defensive.
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