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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Mal,
You are right, I don't know why I didn't see that "couple of weeks", I looked twice.
Now the next important question. Valentines is Sunday so delivery is going to be Saturday in many places. So have them delivered early? or deliver them yourself? I'm in a stable Long term marriage BTW.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): he's only been dating her a couple of weeks...i think one is perfect. i really dont (at least i hope)think he's gonna propose yet. lol mal
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (5 February 2010):
 If you are going to give her a single rose it should be REAL.
However, I like the idea Fatherly Advice suggested that you call her mom and ask her what color she likes best in roses. She might love white, pink, yellow better:)
Real Fake any time.
(alternative is that you look into the meaning of the color and type of flower - print it out and add it to the flower :) Very romantic.
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Absolutely, Positively...Real!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (4 February 2010):
I suppose at 18 to 20, and in a young relationship you can get away with a single rose on valentines. If you have been dating her for a year you should know more about her flower preference. A single Red rose is the default, what you get if you don't know better. A Dozen Red roses is what you get if you don't know better and you want to impress her with your ability to throw money around.
If you are in a young relationship, and you really want to impress her, call her mother and ask her what rose color she prefers. Then go to a good florist that you can afford. Buy a half dozen and have them arranged in a nice vase. Get them delivered before you will show up for the date. I guarantee good results.
Am I wrong ladies?
FA
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reader, visione +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Real of course. Unless it's a very good quality fake one (don't forget to spritz with perfume). Actually now that I think about it, either would be good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): buy 11 real 1 fake. say i'll love you till every rose dies. if u haven't popped the question yetand u want to this is a good way if she likes romantic things like this.
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reader, MistressNataliee  +, writes (4 February 2010):
11 real and 1 fake because it will last as long as your love (forever)
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (4 February 2010):
 It should be real!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): Ohmigosh, who suggested fake to you??? Never fake, it has to be real... Dont take this other persons advice again, ladies do not fall for fake things!! That would be like giving her a ring with a glass-piece instead of a real diamond.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Real, lovely Valentines Day, perfect in every way. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): dont even have to stop and think...real. and dinner and a single rose sounds like a lovely idea darlin', mal
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reader, ShonaB +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Real and stop worrying about being perfect - the fact you cared enough to make an effort will make her smile!
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reader, Lyra Anna  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Real definitly. You can not mistake with real flower. Ever. Remember that, have a fun on Valentine`s ;)
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (4 February 2010):
REAL! Definitely. She can always dry or press it it if she wants to keep it.
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