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writes:Hi Aunts. Okay alot of people will think im a lucky girl but to me, its a nightmare! A year ago i was out clubbing with my girl friends and i met a guy Alex* talking, he bought me drinks etc. Well after about an hour, he said 'Be right back', when he returned, he returned with another similar looking guy..it so happens to be his twin brother Ryan*. They're 'opposite' twins, he has dark hair, his brother has blonde, ones left handed, ones right etc.At first i was confused, but after more drinks, we were having a good time and getting more drunk and before long Alex invited me back to his house, (which he shares with his best friend and Ryan) That night i had a three some with Alex and Ryan, it was great.. but i thought nothing of it.Alex began texting and calling, and i started seeing him everyday. His brother also liked to hang with us, but before long i was having sex with alex one night and ryan the next, sometimes both in the same night (but seperately). Neither were jealous, and they enjoyed 'sharing' me. We'd go and do normal 'couple' things, but i'd hold only one of their hands at a time and then swap to the other.This has been going on for a year now, ive met their parents, they think its great =/ But now i cant keep up with pleasing two men, its tiring, we always argue, jealousy is starting. Alex is very confident, sociable, chatty, muscular.. but Ryan is so sweet and kind. One has the body and one has the personality. I tried to cut it off with Alex first, but he kept wrapping me up in his arms and kissing me and telling me he loves me, So i tried to break it off with Ryan, but he got really upset and told me all the nice things a girl wants to hear. They both sat me down and asked me why im trying to leave them?? Who has a three way relationship? what happens when one of them wants to get married or wants children? Am i selfish to break 'Us' up? Or am i doing the right thing?HELP?
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reader, Faraday +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Look into polyamory. It works for a lot of people, and there are support groups - get your fingers Googling!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): This is all so crazy, but if it is true I also say dump them both and find yourself a normal twosome relationship.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 All I see is a LOT of drama down the road. I'm sure the two guys and a girl is all fun and games til people develop feelings. What sucks is, you might have to cut them both loose and start over with a whole different guy. Otherwise there is going to be way too much drama.
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reader, junebug81409 +, writes (5 February 2010):
i have never been in ur shoes but i would sit them both down and tell them the truth and maybe if they dont understand u need to just leave bcuz u deserve a family and whatever u want.
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