A
female
age
36-40,
*pdrgrl1412
writes: i just met this really really cute and funny guy; but we just met like today and he wants to get really close really fast! He kissed me on the forehead and keeps texting me if its ok if we should kiss and hold hands already! This is bothering me; but i don't want to hurt his feelings.. what should i do?
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (4 February 2010):
Tell him that you want to take it slower, and that you were uncomfortable with the forehead kiss.
He is asking you so that he knows what is and isn't okay. Answer him honestly, but politely, and he'll understand.
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male
reader, The Realist +, writes (4 February 2010):
Tell him that this is going to fast for you. The best thing you can do is be honest and it is also the nicest thing to do rather then getting mad at him when you just can't take the pressure.
He shouldn't be asking for these things, they will just happen when you two are comfortable. Thats really all you have to say and if he won't respect that then i don't think that he is right for you.
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