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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a few months and he does not show emotions at all but he takes care of me he tries to give me watever i ask for ..... Everyone has told me to leave him but i care about him....he took my virginity ...he is my first i care about him so much and i learned that i have to be understanding and that i need to compromise we barely talk on the phone or text and that kind of upsets me but i really want him he makes me happy he is all i think about and dream about ... So should i stay with and make it work or let it go?...... And how often should a couple talk/text on the phone or see each other
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): I wouldnt worry about the phoning and texting..for the most part when a man is at work, its just not the time or the place...my concern would be the lack of affection. If you are just one year into this relationship, i would step back and take a long hard look. I would talk to him and tell him what i needed on an emotional level. I would expect some affection. And i would give him a bit to take that and work on it. if he doesnt then its time to look for someone else. you are emotionally attached to him...he is the man you love and gave yourself to. but i am telling you that in 10 years you will be very unhappy and will end up leaving. The lack of affection tends to affect we women more and more as time goes on. the older we get the more we need some sign of reassurance that we are loved and cherished. it will eventually be a deal breaker. i wish you the best, mal
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