A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I've recently matured quite a bit from the shy, quiet girl I was in highschool who only had one male friend- and he was gay. I've lost a little weight, changed my hairstyle (I used to cover my eyes with my bangs all the time), and dress better. I'm not the most gorgeous girl you'd ever see, but I suppose at the least I've got an hourglass shape and a decent face.So upon turning 18 and coming to college I became friendlier and friendlier with guys, first making friends, then beginning to- for the first time- have physical relations such as making out and kissing.I'm so new to this kind of thing, that if a guy makes out with me at two seperate parties and texts me frequently I can't help but think that he's into me. When he abruptly cuts off communication I end up heartbroken.I'm the type of girl who thinks that if a guy invites her back to his room to "listen to music", that's not all he really wants to do.I guess the way I look everyone expects me to be experienced, and I try not to act like a total fool but I keep getting into these awkward situations. I'm putting every guy I meet into the friend zone now because I'm scared of getting attatched and eventually finding out he just thinks I'm a hook-up.Any advice to a newbie like me?
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (4 February 2010):
hi you just have not met the right guy yet not all guys expect experienced guys you should not put them all in the same box as some guys will be good decent guys experience comes with time when a guy wants you to listen to music some guys it means more sometimes it means just listening to music depends on the guy not all guys just think of sex girls some like to get to know a girl first not all guys just want sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): Most young girls get played at least a few times because of common sense. They have plenty of common sense but they don't use it on certain guys. They seem to think common sense only applies to guys they aren't very interested in.
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