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Should I try to be cool or just be myself?

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Question - (22 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Since the girl I like turned me down my friend wants to make me "cool". A High Schooler on my bus , who is a girl, says to be myself. I dont know what to do be cool or myself.

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A male reader, unclezak United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2009):

being yourself is the coolest to yourself and yourself matters the most to yourself

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A female reader, nikki_smith United States +, writes (22 May 2009):

well if the girl u like was any kind of interrested she'd accept u for who u are not what would make her look good you know what im saying so im pretty sure u would find a girl who wants you for who u are not for who they want u to be... also that girl jus may like u but dont want to go with a lower class person cuz she'd look bad but hey like i said if she was any kind of interrested she'd accept u 4 real so dont sweat it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009):

Be yourself - far too many people hide behind a mask to be something they're not. As E.E.Cummings once said, '' The hardest challenge is to be yourself in a world where everyone is trying to make you somebody else''.

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntAlways be yourself or they will fall for someone your not and you going to have to spend everyday pretending.

Find that someone who loves you for you!

Livia

xoxox

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the advice. :)

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