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female
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36-40,
*achakaRoni
writes:My ex is on his way to being dumped and he hadn't spoke to me for a week and a half and texts me on wednesday night and said he hadn't spoke to me in a while and wanted to know how I was. I replied and he kept texting continuously for 3 hrs and asked about my dates Ive been having. why is he so interested? ne advice will be greatfully received. thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): Hello :)
He is doing this because he likes the attention he can get from you. Yes he may miss you but is this because he isn't getting attention anywhere else? Remember he dumped you so be careful else you could leave yourself open to getting hurt all over again.
If I were you I wouldn't text back (I know how hard that will be!!!!) and see what happens - a good friend (male) once told me "a man who texts is after sex, a man who calls is after more..."
Until he calls begging forgiveness then give him a wide berth and even if he does call make sure you make him work hard for your attention! But be warned, he may just disappear when he realises you're not giving him the emotional affirmation he obviously seeks!
Go out and try to have fun forgetting this guy, its only when you have the upper hand that you will be strong enough to move on and forget this guy - you deserve more than a text.
Good luck honey.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): It's an ego thing. Why are you even responding because it's none of his business now. He dumped you so it's not like he wants to be with you so don't allow him the satisfaction of knowing you got nothing going on.
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reader, loveuxoxo  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 he is doing this prob because he isnt over you and misses you. he prob sees how much he lost when you left. he is jealous of you moving on. he seems like he isnt over you honeyy. i hope this helps!
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