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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I started dating my boyfriend a year ago and in the begining he was lovely he's 18 years older than me and everthing was great and i felt like a princess and that i could finally be with someone who understood me 2 or 3 weeks in i cheated i didnt have sex or oral but i did some stuff i'm not too proud of ,a couple months after i found out that he was in the process of getting a dirvorce this broke my heart, as i have grown up with a cheating father and to think i stole another womans husband made me feel ashamed, but he assured me it was long over before i came on the scene. My parents found out i was dating him and imediatly put a stop to it during the time i wasn't seeing him he found out that i'd cheated and forgave me.i went behind there back anyway and still spoke to him and then one day i earnt my mums trust enough to see him it was amazing just like it had been then he stoped seeing me and ignored my calls after a month had gone by i found out he'd slept with 2 women and this broke me as a person my depression grew so much as i'd lost someone very close to me a month before i had to drop out of college and me and him sorted stuff out he told me that he was only getting me back for what i did to him. which is fair after all but ever since then hes become so cold i don't know how to fix it i really need help iv talked over and over to him about him being cold and in the end he just calls me pathetic and stuff i really need some advice i have no friends anymore and i'm so depressed.
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reader, silvershocker123  +, writes (23 May 2009):
He treated you like a princess in the beginning because you were naive and innocent. By "princess" i think that you are trying to say he bought you things and took you places that no guys in your school would have done for you... and that's not because he is super nice or anything like that but rather simply because he is older.
Listen, A guy that older can leave you scarred for the rest of your life and more importantly is not the right guy for you.... A man who thinks less of a wife and children has got no values of his own and through him don't traumatize your teenage years. Your parents are right in keeping you sheltered infact ask anyone around you about your relationship and they would tell you the same thing that its a very unhealthy relationship that you just got to get out of....
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