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writes:My new boyfriend treats me like a princess!! and i'm sooo happy with him.. we've been talking for about a month and recently made it official last week.. He's perfect.. we're so compatible, we barely fight, he pleases me, anything i wish for he completes it, he has a successful future ahead of him in sports. stays out of trouble and i love his family...HOWEVER, i'm also really sad... my mom will never accept him!!! There's a color issue here.. i'm hispanic and my mom will never accept a black boyfriend for me.. I don't know if i should continue being with him and wait a couple of months to tell her or go behind her back and let her find out a more complicated way... HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, Krathor18  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 Ok dear, first off DO NOT go behind your mother's back this will only make things worse, have a sit down with her and explain that you are in love with this boy, and that you want to enjoy a future with him, try giving her a chance to get to know him perhaps, she might think diffrent then, i'm not an expert on interracial relationships but i can tell you that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks as long as you both love her, just like i said, sit down with your mum and talk to her as best you can, but please dont go behind her back, this may also make her think that she cant trust you and you may do this with future lads, remember she loves you dearly and cares about you, and she wants the best for you, so just think things through with her ok?? i hope things go ok for you, good luck, and take care,
Charlie.x.
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