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writes:There´s this guy I have feelings for who is a military stationed somewhere across the country.We met 2 years ago when he did TDY in my town. We kinda clicked since the moment we met, unfortunately he had to leave a week later with no chance for something more. We email and talk on the phone regularly since (once a week or every two weeks). We are long distance though. So, when I don't get any news from him in a week or two I worry (he's not deployed but still he can be in a snap).I had wrote 2 emails and he didn't replied. So, I call him to check on and when he asked what was going on I said I called b/c I haven't heard from him. He chuckled and said he had been VERY busy and he wasn't able to reply. He said that's the way it goes sometimes . I said sorry and he said it was OK and that I shouldn't worry. He was very sweet about it, mainly b/c I thought he would got mad or think I was clingy or something. Do you think this way of me acting can hint him I love him or have feelings for him already. I want to tell him I love him so, but I don´t want to pass through the pain of rejection or make a fool of myself.Please advice, if he hinted I love him?
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 He doesn't love you. Forget him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): Tell him you love him now. It'll make a greater impact than if you were to do it when he gets back. Telling him so will give him a reason to survive, come back, and love you back. If he's going to reject you, tell him sooner anyway. The pain can only grow with time and time won't change how he thinks of you when he's away. If you find out he doesn't care for you, you can stop wasting precious life and move on.
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