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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi. I am 24 and have only had two boyfriends and those i met through school and college. Now i have gone one step further and met a guy at work. Now i am feeling a little rusty, since it has been 2 years since my last relationship broke up and i have been single ever since.At the moment, there is this guy and i cannot decided whether he fancies me or not. I suppose i am a little slow on the uptake :)Anyway, just a few instances. He calls me a name he knows i do not like, its a shortening of my name, but that is just his way. He is sometimes a little moody but most days he is great. Other times he is a bit distant. And i have only noticed this when i talk about my male friends on MSN. He makes me drinks without me asking for them. When i was leaving the building a few weeks ago, he said, goodbye and told me to take care and this is before my next point started being a problem. Lately i have been having a few problems with yobs at home and when i said i was very worried about being alone, he said, if i was with you, they wouldn't dare do anything to you or your car. And one day when i was making a bed he said, you make them really neat, i'd let you make mine.And just last week, i caught him watching me with a strange look on his face and when i looked at him pointedly, he just smiled an said 'Alright'.And today, well he was a bit offhand, but right now he seems very chatty and made a joke which made me blush, and when he mumbled something else, i said pardon and he replied nothing with a shake of his head and a cheeky smile.Now i don't know if he fancies me and i don't know if i fancy him!What do you guys think?
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (30 April 2009):
 your definately a bit 'friendly'
if it was me things like i'd let you make my bed and if i was with you i would take them as invitations , hints if you like.
hes paying interest make an effort and ask him out somewhere, if your worried about what to do go to a restaurant or even cook him a meal! he gets the chance then to play superman if your having probs at home.
Meals are good because it gives you a chance to really talk , its play ground if your just smiling at eachother and no doing anything about it.
theres only one way to find out you like someone and thats to spend proper time one on one, no kids no mates no audiences.
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reader, auntsallyhelpsU +, writes (30 April 2009):
 I think you make him feel good about himself because he can tell you like him.if you feel brave enough ask to go to lunch. If after lunch he says shall we do this again sometime say on a date or as a mate then should no where you stand.
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