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writes:Me and my Boyfriend have been together 4 years off and on, im sure i love him i know he loves me, but ive been talking to another guy and met up with once, im 23 and im not sure if its being with him from such a young age....now im tempted to experiment, but if i loved my boyfriend that much surely i would not of given this other man my number? Reply to this Question
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reader, Vixen Green  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 In this situation you have to choose what you want to regret: Giving up a great boyfriend who doesn't 'do' it for you, or wondering who you may have met that could be a great boyfriend with passion.
You're kinda young and its normal to want to have that feeling of being in love and enjoying yourself. If you decide that you really want to see what else is out there, you owe it to your boyfriend to be honest about that. It would be best to end things on good terms since he is such a good person...maybe you could be friends.
But understand that you'll probably miss the stability once its over and it could possibly take more than a few tries to find the type of guy you're looking for. So be prepared to enjoy your own company and the company of your friends while you're trying to find the one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is my first serious boyfriend but we split up before as i wanted to see what was out there, then i got back with him. The thing that confuses me is that hes a great bloke, loving caring romantic, but i just dont have that passion with him, gone off sex aswell with him really....but i could break up with him then regret it for the rest of my life just becoz im curious to whats out there, but surely if we was ment to be together i would not be thinking about this other man!
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reader, SWEETANDSASSY +, writes (30 April 2009):
if you say you love your man why are you seeing someone else i think that you are still young and want to be with other people so why have a relationship with someone else i dont go for that i love my mate stuff then you go around being with others try loving yourself first instead of going to aonther person hope you find true love one day
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): Im in the same situation as you hun so i dont really have an answer...Maybe you are just bored?? or maybe its the "grass is greener" syndrome.
I got with my man when i was 21..im now 25 and often wonder if we got together to young..even though i love him i do wonder whats out there as he was my 1st serious relationship...is this your case also?
I'll be watching your post for some answers.
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