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writes: My bofriend thinks i depend on him too much, i don't think so. he provide everything for me, apartment, money and every thing i ask him for, i do not work, when we just started out he said he wants to spoil me, and he is doing just that. i don't know what i'm doing wrong.i am happy, i don't depend on him for my happiness,i always enjoy myself outside of our relationship, with friend and family. i don't call him often cause less is always more. i do believe in the laws of attraction, and it works well for me. hmm, WHAT IS DEPENDING ON A MAN TOO MUCH? thanks
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reader, pebble  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Wow, aren't you a delight?You carry on living your fabulous lifestyle then. Until the day he gets sick of you sponging off of him. You said yourself he's getting sick of it already. He's only going to put up with it for so long. After that you're out in the big, bad world by yourself.Good luck - you're certainly gonna need it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): well its a blessing and thank god, i do deserve it, for that is been spoil is a crime. I'm loving my life style, let the haters be a hater I'm not here for y'all to like me. I'm bless, the money I'm getting is better than you all weeks pay i guess, and bet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): LOOK IN YOUR FIRST LINE YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWER :
My bofriend thinks i depend on him too much, i don't think so. HE PROVIDES EVERYTHING FOR ME :
so how about that you get a job and contribute towards the rent a little or sumthing
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reader, pebble +, writes (30 April 2009):
What happens if he decides he doesn't want to be with you anymore? You're left with nothing?
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reader, mousepad  +, writes (30 April 2009):
It's not good to depend on someone that much... and yes, that's what you are doing. He could leave you, or it could even be out of his control- something could happen to him. Where would that leave you? You need to be able to support yourself. It's also just respectful to help him out with money!
And I found the statement, "I don't call him often cause less is always more" very odd. Sounds as if he does EVERYTHING for you, and yet you don't even have a very strong relationship or friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): So he does 100% and you do what exactly? Are you a pet cat or dog? - whose owner just provides for them and then you purr or fetch sticks as requested?
its a partnership so why not go work and do what most people do and share the balance. Do you clean or or cook anything?
Share it - make it worth something to you and therefore him...
Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): Is he a professional Premier League footballer by any chance? The way you describe things you could well be a WAG.
If not, show some self-respect and make some sort of contribution to the household and don't depend on him for everything. If you're playing at being a 'kept woman' just remember that you're easily replaceable by a younger sexier model, or someone who has some pride in herself.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 April 2009):
Offer to get a job?
I really don't think he's talking about happiness sweetie.
You are sucking the lifeblood out of him and costing him a fortune. He's set you up... now PAY HIM SOME RENT!!
Good Luck!! xx
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