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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I recently spent 4 solid days with a guy i met off the net. he is 18 yrs my senior ...no comments on age difference please as it is really not relevant to either of us ...we are very aware of how we could eb perceived etc and our interests span the difference anyway. we got along famously and spent alot of time just sitting watching dvds and talking and generally getting along great.we went out on the second night and he told me that he wasnt being stand offish cos he didnt like me , it was just because he had only just met me .. after that we were very cuddly and we shared a few kisses. The day after we went around town but there was very little physical contact e.g holding hands or any cuddling or anything till we got home where he was stroking the back of my neck and things until we went to sleep.then on the last day there was no hugging or anything until he left at the station where he hugged and kissed me and told me he would ring me on the train and see me soon . it is safe to say i really like this guy and i am hoping he feels the same way ..it has been 4 days since that first time of meeting that turned into a four day date haha ...i am moving soon and would like to see him again before i move....when do u think is appropriate...we have maintained contact since we aw each other almost everyday . thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): If you two have a genuine connection and mutual interest in each other, I don't think there is an appropriate or inappropriate time to meet again. Just make the arrangements. Are you afraid of moving too quickly? I would say that spending four straight days together has taken care of that precedent. Don't over-think it. Just do what feels right and if he freaks out about it, then he's not the one for you. Best of luck!
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