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Should I go out with my best boy mate?

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Question - (23 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 16 years old and have a friend called Trey. We are really close and he always comes to mine every saturdaay. We have never kissed or anything and just see each other as mates but when we are together everything just seems perfect. We hold hands and mess around. We was talking the other day about 'us' and whether we should be together or not cos we both like each other but are just too scared to admit it. At this very moment I am talking to him about it and he is asking me do you wanna be more then mates? and I said dunno cos I don't wanna ruin our friendship but to be honest I do wanna be more than mates but at the same time I don't because I'm scared people will take the mick and I also like this other boy I met who is 18, we had a fling and I fell in love with him but he turned out to be a player. Trey was there for me the whole time. Please what should I do?

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A female reader, !Candice16! United States +, writes (24 November 2008):

!Candice16! agony auntYES!!!!! Go for it. U never find a great guy like that anymore. Just promise that u guys will b friends still, if anything happend that way u guys wont lose eachother. so if he is a great guy to u right now, then he will be a great boyfriend. So go for it!!! Take it to the next level!!! GO!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008):

hey :)

i think you should go for it tbh,

if your such good friends then why not a good couple?

and just make a promise that whatever happens you'll still be friends,

whats the worst that could happen?

x

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