A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi, can anyone give me advice?im nearly 23 and iv never had a girl friend, i wouldn't say im a geek or anything, i socialise with my friends a lot and always go the clubs and pubs. But i cant seem to find anyone. im kind of shy around new people and dont know what to say. i have friends that are girls but iv never got up the courage to ask any of them what they think of me or if they can help.what can i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): I think you maybe shall find a place where you meet people, a plave where also women go..What are your interests?
there are clubs for single most places too.
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reader, SinVA +, writes (23 November 2008):
Ask your female friends to help out! If you are interested in one of them, ask them to hang out or somthing when its just you and her and see how that plays out, if there is any attraction, etc. Or if you are good friends with a girl, ask her to help you meet other girls, especially if you are shy, it will really help having her there introducing, conversing, etc. I'm not a club/pub goer, and I don't want to smash them but I don't know if a club is the best place to look for a relationship. Join some activities, or join a sports team, do somthing outside of drinking which might let you meet some new people and new women.Goodluck, and whatever works, let me know! I'm in search of a woman right now too!
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