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Is he only using me, or what is going on here?

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Question - (23 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hiya, I met a lad a few weeks ago and we txt each other and talk on the phone quite alot. The week after we met we went to the cinema and the weekend after (last weekend) we met up again and had sex. This week when I asked if he wanted to meet up he said 'he's not in the best of moods, sorry'. What does this mean, does it mean he doesnt want to see me again and is just making up excuses or do you think he genuinely isn't in a good mood and doesn't wnt me to have a rubbish time if we met up?!

I really like this lad and we seem to get on so well....I dont know if he is using me or he maybe wants 2 b wiv me someday.....?

Thanks for your help x

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A female reader, Petina United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2008):

Petina agony auntSometimes when you are in a new relationship and sex occurs it can cause difficulties. Maybe you should have held of a bit longer, he sounds like he has shyed off. Take it a bit more slowly next time, you will get more respect. Hope this helps.

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A female reader, girl with concern British Indian Ocean Territory +, writes (23 November 2008):

I think that you should text him and ask him if you have done something wrong..

If he says no then I think that you should ask him what is on his mind and maybe you two should talk together about things..

If he says no then just say ok I'm here if you need me or something like that..?

Then wait till he texts you again because I'm sure he will..

I don't know whether he's using you, only he knows that, he could well be or might not be.. but that's where you've got to give him some space, keep busy yourself until he wants you again then do the same to him and say you're not feeling up to it tonight, that way he will know that he has affected you and then he will be desperate to see you again xx hope I helped

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