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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I am recently in my freshman year in high school and have never really had a gf. However in the beginning of the school year i kind of dated this girl i didnt really like and well..... broke up with her after a week. Anyway it has been about a month or two and all of my friends are starting to hook up and i am beginning to feel like i am out of place. This girl who just broke up with her bf has started to talk to me a little, she even calls me "best friend" but i have no idea what to talk to her about. I dont stutter or anything I just have no clue what to say to her. I do say hi but after that i keep my mouth shut. Can someone please help me talk to this girl. I really do like her and I even think we could have a long relationship, but not only do i hardly even know her,I cant even talk to her. People continue to say "oh just ask her about a movie you have seen" but I just cant say hi and immediately randomly ask about a movie. That is so stupid. Please someone help me!! For the first time in my life, even though I have a lot of friends, I am starting to feel very lonely. I need to know what to talk about with girls especially when it is just me and that girl. `
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reader, Charlotte? +, writes (23 November 2008):
whenever you see her always say hi, you alright? and then she will reply yes/no you? then carry on with a conversation such as what did you do last night/ what are you doing after school, etc. eventually you will be spending more and more time with her and you will feel more confident about asking her out. GOOD LUCK :)
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