New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I have no clue what to say to her! Any suggestions?

Tagged as: Dating, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (23 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am recently in my freshman year in high school and have never really had a gf. However in the beginning of the school year i kind of dated this girl i didnt really like and well..... broke up with her after a week. Anyway it has been about a month or two and all of my friends are starting to hook up and i am beginning to feel like i am out of place. This girl who just broke up with her bf has started to talk to me a little, she even calls me "best friend" but i have no idea what to talk to her about. I dont stutter or anything I just have no clue what to say to her. I do say hi but after that i keep my mouth shut. Can someone please help me talk to this girl. I really do like her and I even think we could have a long relationship, but not only do i hardly even know her,I cant even talk to her. People continue to say "oh just ask her about a movie you have seen" but I just cant say hi and immediately randomly ask about a movie. That is so stupid. Please someone help me!! For the first time in my life, even though I have a lot of friends, I am starting to feel very lonely. I need to know what to talk about with girls especially when it is just me and that girl.

`

View related questions: broke up

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Charlotte? United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2008):

whenever you see her always say hi, you alright? and then she will reply yes/no you? then carry on with a conversation such as what did you do last night/ what are you doing after school, etc. eventually you will be spending more and more time with her and you will feel more confident about asking her out. GOOD LUCK :)

<-- Rate this answer

Add your answer to the question "I have no clue what to say to her! Any suggestions?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312186000082875!