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writes:Sorry for this-its going to be long. My boyfriend broke up with me, and Im trying to make sense of this. He sent me this (after he broke up, I might add):“ok, this is the way i look at it, i dont want a relationship. period. but i do want somebody without the commitment. somebody who i can share affection, emotion things like tht with, but not be tied down to. i want you, but i dont want to be commited to you. i cant do commitment right now. maybe it would be better if we met up and discussed this?xxxxxxxxxxxxx”And then:”i basically mean i want the physical side of love, but not the emotional side as much. i cant do it. xxxxxx”I said to him so basically do you mean you want sex,and everything in between, and got this back:“perhaps that is what i want, but the only person i want to do that with is you. and im not saying that i wouldnt attempt to do the emotional stuff, i just dont want it to be something that is compulsory. xxxxxx”I cant for the life of me figure this out, can anyone help me out here please? Im confused, and really upset about this.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 November 2008):
He wants to use you for sex till someone better comes along.
Tell him to take a hike.
What could you possibly want to get into this for?
He's dumped you! He doesn't care about you, he just wants to be able to have sex without putting in any kind of effort.
What an idiot.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, supermum +, writes (23 November 2008):
 do whatever you feel comfy with babe... can you do that with him? if yes, go for it, if not, dont, simple (ish) lol.all the best hun
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