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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:dear cupid, i could really use your help. im 18 years old and in college, im attractive and funny. i have goals in life.i have an all in all good personality and am fun to be around. i get asked out alot. i go out every weekend and there are too many plans sometimes. there is a problem. i always get my heart broken. the very few times i put my heart out there it gets torn to pieces. at 16 i got my first real boyfriend and we dated for two weeks and it was a bad situation with another girl. we are still friends to this day. i talk to him everyday.he is now my very close friend. he wants to get back together but i don't. at 17 i dated another guy for about a month. it was also bad. for the last year i have been going through it with my bestfriend we dated for two months straight. i love him with all my heart and soul but he just doesn't want to be with me. i don't know why. i just can't make him happy. the next guy was cheating on me. we were together about 3 weeks. it ended extremely badly. im 18 now. those were my actual "boyfriends" there have been more flings than i care to count. and by fling i mean no sex fling i have only ever slept with one person. but when it comes to a relationship nobody is ever what i want. nobody can make me happy. and the only four guys i have dated cheated on me. all except one. i can't find a guy i like. i don't get crushes. well very rarely and the ones i do get have turned into my boyfriend. i go for the guys i want and they always want me back. in all honestly i want my ex boyfriend. the best friend. he was my best friend for three years and for the last year we have been "romantic" we haven't talked much. its terrible and when we do talk its hi how are you hows school and the family and literally thats it. and thats through text. maybe its him but i have dated someone since him. im confused. im not ugly. i have a great personality. im outgoing and funny. lots of guys have crushes on me and want to be with me. i just don't want them. why are the extremely few guys i date such douche bags? and i always get cheated on. what do i do? why can't anyone make me happy? why don't i get a crush on every guy? why don't i have long relationships? i think its me where the problem is. please help me cupid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): you trust peeple too quickly! im not saying that you shoulnt trust someone,im just sayin that peeple you dont know well,dont trust them after your first date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): I think most young guys are not serious in love. I am your age too, and I don't like young guys- they just like go around come around.
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reader, cockainis +, writes (23 November 2008):
 If having a boyfriend to you is "owning" one, then you are up for a long search my dear. A relationship is there for sharing and not for ownership. You are young. Do not be possessive. If it doesn't work out, let him go. After all, a relationship is not ownership. When you are ready to share and not to own, then you are ready for a relationship.
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