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Do girls care about the size of a penis?

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Question - (7 April 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *amsidol4 writes:

I'm just at the average size for the male penis.

I was wondering, do girls care about size..i mean, they have to a little right?

I'm 17 and only 5.5-6

I'm thinking that's small for my age.. is it?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008):

5.5-6" is normal for a Caucasian. Every different race on earth averages somewhere between 5.0-6.5 inches.

Porno dudes are not reality. They get that job partly because they're oversized.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

Your size is completely average so not small at all.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (8 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntYour average dude.

So don't worry.

and dicks are just like breasts , we all like the look of large ones but whether we actually prefer them is a different story. My wife dumped her boyfriend to go out with me, he was hung like a horse, so it obviously wasn't that important to her!

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A female reader, Miracles123 United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

Miracles123 agony auntHello. It Depends on the girl to be honest. Not everyone likes a big penis. It doesn't bother me. What's the big deal, you don't date someone for their penis do ya? You have no worries so stop worrying.

MIRACLES-ox

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

I'm not going to lie...it sure does help! But if you're experienced and can use it right, a penis is a penis is a penis.

I agree with previous posters; make her cum before you actually have sex.

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A female reader, lotsofgiggles123 United States +, writes (7 April 2008):

lotsofgiggles123 agony auntussaly no. if its one of those girls who are snobs or shallow girls maybe....but most girls do not care the size of your penis . :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

In porn movies there are these men with these HUGE penises - this seems to make men insecure about their size. Not all women like men with huge penises and what it really amounts to is how considerate a man is not how big he is.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

This is like asking guys if they care about the size of a girls boobs. You'll get a different answer from everyone you ask! It's all down to personal preference. Some girls have a world that revolves around the size of a guy's cock, whereas some don't even think about it.

Personally, I'm not that bothered. It's what he does with it. As long as it does the job, then I'm happy! And when you say thats your size.. Bloody hell! You mean erect, don't you? Maybe I'm just being thick here, but if that was flacid, thats pretty huge! Good luck :]

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A male reader, oldbiker United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2008):

oldbiker agony auntHi,

I have a pet phrase, "it's not what you've got, it's what you can do with it!" There is a great deal more to love than sex. As you say your are at the average size, so you don't have too much to bother about. And, in general, most females don't visit porn sites [I'll be corrected on that theory too! :-)] so size isn't greatly important to them. A large penis (both in length and girth) can be painful to a female, but there are so many variables on both sides. I also believe the only folk that worry about size are males. As I said, there are far more factors in a relationship than straight sex, so don't worry.

All the best

Oldbiker

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2008):

5 - 6 inches is normal for any man.

And let me tell you that it really really is not about size when it comes to being good in bed.

I went out with this one guy who was HUGE, and was absolutely rubbish at sex. He wasn't into foreplay, or when he was it was all about getting me ready to have sex, not about giving me pleasure.

My husband however (this is part of the reason I married him) takes his time and doesn't go straight for my pants.

Here are the top 3 things to do with a girl to make sure you are good in bed....

1. Kissing. Seriously. It's the biggest turn on and can be romantic and soft or rough and sexy or a mix of both.

2. Stroke and kiss the whole body, legs, neck etc. Show her how into her you are and how sexy you think she is.

3. Make her come before you actually have sex - either with your hand or your mouth. That way if it doesn't happen during sex (and it doesn't quite a lot of the time) it doesn't matter.

Good Luck!! xx

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