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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a professional relationship with a man I feel is interested in me. Recently I became aware of the fact that he is dating someone much younger than him. Because of the comfort in our relationship, I have blantantly asked him if he is dating, and he has denied it. Why would he deny that he is dating someone? Why is he keeping this information from me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): He's keeping it from you because he's likely hopeful, you will date him. And he knowas, if you think that he's not dating and is available...you might consider dating him. And of course, you also know the first requirement you have for a potential dating partner is knowing that a guy is free and available to date you. Ride this one out and if he does end it with her, then you can choose to date him but not before. Let's face it, the guy is dating someone, but it doesn't mean that 'she' is the one for him. He's selecting and he likes you. But why lie about it? And feel he has to hide it. That is likely the more important thing, you should be thinking about.
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reader, Cana +, writes (7 April 2008):
Because he is interested in you and wants to keep you as an option in case his current relationship fails. You are his rebound.
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