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writes:Hi everyoneI need help - so here's the story:I'm 14 and am madly in love with a girl that i'm friends with, i have already told her that i love her but i have not asked her out, all my friends have told me to ask her and that she would probably say yes. One of which is my best friend, and her best friend too, but she's told me she's waiting for the perfect guy, and my friends have also told me that she has called me hot, army fit..and she has given me a rating of 8/10. But i still keep getting the feeling she'll say no. So i was wondering if anyone could help me out, because i feel depressed a lot and i literally can't stop thinking about her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for the great advice :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Talk to her and flirt a little ... if you dont already really know her .. get to know her!!!!
If this girl is calling you fit and rating you 8/10 that plainly says shes intrested in you!!!! Go for it :):)
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reader, loveStruck2  +, writes (7 April 2008):
step into her personal space (usually within 3 feet of her). if she doesn't step back, that's a good sign and it's probably safe to ask her out. try flirting with her a little more. sit close to her and observe whether or not she moves away or seems uncomfortable with your proximity. bump into her slightly when you're joking around or touch her hand/arm when you're talking. pay close attention to her reactions. If she likes you as more than a friend, she will welcome the flirtation and probably return with her own flirting.
after a short time, you'll know whether or not she'd be likely to say yes. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): You don't have to rush to asking her out if you're nervous about her response. Try flirting a little more with her. When you sit next to her, sit close enough that you'd almost touch or touch her gently (arm/hand but nothing crude) when you're joking around with her. If she seems uncomfortable with you touching her, then I'd put off asking her out...at least until you have more cues from her.
I've found one of the best ways to tell if someone likes you as more than a friend is to get in their "space". We all like our personal space (usually 4 feet away from your body). Step into her personal space.
If you're standing 2 feet or less from her on a regular basis and she welcomes that or doesn't step back, that is a very good sign that she likes you and it's probably safe to think that she'd say yes if you asked her out.
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