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writes:This guy told me to leave him alone because he was talking to someone else...now he's calling me back..i've been nice and i've been talking to him but my heart is telling me that i'm being used, and that he will do it all over again, so i told him to stop calling me. I ignore his phone calls, now i can't get him out of my head and i want him to come back, even though my heart is telling me to leave him alone. Am i wrong for telling him to not call me, because he did call back? Reply to this Question
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reader, cloe339 +, writes (14 February 2009):
I found a book on the internet that has taught me a lot, particularly how to behave in order to win back my ex, to save my relationship ; I applied that behavioural method to the letter and I can tell you that it worked (I recommend it to you)
http://www.secrets-de-femmes.fr/saving-your-relationship.html
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reader, anonymousgirl +, writes (7 April 2008):
Follow your heart and your instincts. Stay strong and trust in the decisions you make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Intruder Alert!!!
(great song for your situation by Lupe Fiasco - find it on youtube)
sometimes it's best to translate these:
a burgler comes in your house - he stole your purse...
the next day he comes to your doorstep - hands you your purse and tells you he stole all the money and credit cards outta ur purse
but - because u felt bad about tossing him out - u let him in the house and forgave him for his crime
honestly - if you got together.... would you be able to trust him? would you be able to take the image out of your head about what he blatantly told you?
relationships w/o trust are more damaging than helpful.
move on darling. you sound like a great gal.... u deserve better
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 You can try to give him another chance and see how it goes.
Be on your guard and don't let your guard down and get caught.
Sometimes, perceptions can be wrong...
Good luck to you.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (7 April 2008):
 No, trust your heart and your instincts. Sounds like he came back to you after the other one didnt work out. You like him, yes, but seriously trust your instincts. Keep ignoring him, he will stop calling and you will get over him. Good luck :)
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reader, cuteblonde124 +, writes (7 April 2008):
 girl you were right. stay away from mr heartbreak kaay
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