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writes:I've bin fingered once before and he used four fingers up to his knuckles bearing in mind his fingers are quite fat. It didn't hurt one bit and I didn't think it was particularly 'good' either.I'm a virgin and I don't see why it doesn't hurt me, yet everyone else I know says they can only get two fingers up there and it hurts them really bad plus they aren't even virgins!Can anyone tell me why this is?And would it hurt me alot my first time?Thanks everyone =] xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): As said by everyone who previously posted, a girl's vagina is extremely elastic.
Although I seem abnormally tight and two fingers is practically pulling teeth without like a boat load of lube or a ridiculous amount of foreplay. o.O And I'm no virgin, either.
Don't worry, babe! You're just a little stretching. Google Kegals if you think they'll help you tighten up.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Hi,
women's vagaina's come in all shapes and sizes like men's penises. A lot of girls think that all vaginas are relatively the same in that they stretch according to the size of the object inserted. But from my own experience I have found some girls are unbelievably tight - even if they are well lubricated - or quite loose ( my current partner has a very loose vagina ). But it matters not, tight or loose it's what you do with it - its the same with a guy's penis. Some girls prefer big ones just like some guys prefer tight vaginas, but most people don't care.
Just because your boyfriend can fit 4 fingers up you easily doesnt mean he should. It is all about arousal, you will enjoy it if you are sexually aroused and not if you arent. So if the next guy wants to see what he can fit up there, tell him its not about how much your vagina can expand its about enjoying it. If you dont enjoy it tell him to stop.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 First of all, the vagina is a remarkably flexible and expandable organ capable of giving birth to eight-pound or larger babies. Secondly, girls are extremely varied in size regarding the capacities of their vaginas. There is nothing unusual in the fact that the vaginal openings and capacities of many women are greater than others, just as the size of some men's penises are greater or smaller than average. Some people are tall, some much shorter; some are fat while others are skinny; some are white in skin color, while others are black, yellow, red or brown; some have red hair, while others are blonde, brunette, black, or gray; the breasts of some women are large while some are small. If you can explain why these differences exist, then you can explain why the vaginas of some women can comfortably accommodate the penetration of a larger penis or an extra finger or two during sexual stimulation. Humanity is a remarkably varied species. Isn't it wonderful?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Not every girl is the same. For me it hurt an insane amount close the every time we did it it for over a month. Still hurts to this day if it has been awhile. While my friend, who was a virgin, had no pain at all. Have you used your own fingers before? Sometimes girls who have never pleasured themself find it a lot more painful than girls who have had a little bit of experience.
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