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writes:I am 14. I'm straight, and i am a virgin. I like a 15 year old who is not a virgin. I like him a lot, but we haven't met in person yet. Well we have but a year ago. Now we just talk on the phone. I don't have any boobs, and i don't know if he will care.1. Do you think he will care?2. Should i have sex?3. Males do you care?
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reader, lotsofgiggles123 +, writes (13 August 2008):
 i dont think he will care about boobs if you know he nice and does no really care bout that kind of stuff then i bet he wont care hope dis helps
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs.  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Hi babes,
To be honest,
Boobs don't have nothing to do with sex,
it doesn't matter if you don't have boobs,
boy should just enjoy the other things hes doing lols.
And its up to you if you would like to have sex,
if your ready then go ahead,
but dont rush things wish a boy you haven't met yet.
loosing your virginty is special thing to do , and you don't want to loose it and regret it ,
hope all goes weell.
Tiierney x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): First of all, the boobs thing? yeah, don't worry about it. Most of the guys I know prefer small boobs. My boyfriend likes B-cups the best, followed closely by A-cups. And small boobs are much easier to (eh hem) use in bedroom matters (first hand experience).
The only way to find out if he cares is to go for it! try talking to him in person, hanging out, etc. If he doesn't care, it will be VERY obvious. But you owe it to yourself to know the truth.
As for the sex question, I would highly reccomend holding out for as long as possible. You know you have a boy who will love you when he doesn't mind hanging out with you, minus the sex. My boyfriend was more experienced than virgin me, but sex was never a big part of our relationship until we BOTH chose to make it so, and that was after a long time of getting to know each other.
The most important thing is when you choose to have sex, that it is your choice, and it's with someone you know who can deal with the consequences ( i.e. pregnancy, std's, not telling his friends all about it).
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): At your age I had a size 30AA bra. 20 years later I'm 32DD - no implants!! So you may well develop further but even if you don't change then I can tell you now big breasts have their challenges. Difficult clothes sizes, aching backs and unwanted attention to name a few. Your self confidence, given the right environment, will grow. However be wary of hoping that a young lad will be the 'key' to your happiness or indeed your self confidence. You may read a great deal about confidence being a very attractive thing in a girl / woman. Many big breasted girls are insecure and men get tired of that! Take time out and think about whether having sex and all the serious stuff that goes with it is really that important right now or whether you want to just have fun and keep things casual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): You know, I honestly can't believe someone would write this to you...
"You are just a little girl who should be doing her homework. stop this silliness and enjoy your childhood."
No wonder they put themselves anonymous - they're heartless and clearly have NO idea what so ever about what it's like at your age. I'm guessing the anonymous person must be about 70, because otherwise I would hope they'd realise you're a person too, and not just a kid!
I'll apologise for them actually, because there are some lovely lovely aunts on here. I'm sorry you just crossed paths with one that isn't very lovely at all.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 I don't agree that at your age you shouldn't be thinking about sex. It's hard to think about anything else at that age. But, you shouldn't be having sex until at least 16. There are many reasons for this, but the most important is that sex opens up a whole range of powerful and complex emotions that are very hard to deal with, when you are a bit older you'll be able to handle them much better. And for your questions:
1. He may, he may not. It depends partly on his taste, and partly on how shallow he is. Bear in mind he may still want sex even if he cares (most boys his age will have sex with just about anyone who offers it to them).
2. No, please wait. It's very difficult, but you'll be glad you did.
3. Personally no, but it comes down to personal preference. It's a bit like asking someone what their favourite colour is.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Why do you worry about these types of things at your age?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Dear,
1) Don't have sex with anyone at your age. You're too young.
2) Don't ever have sex with anyone you're not sure about. And you dont really know who this guy is.
3) Given your age, I know your breasts will increase in size. So, don't think you will always be just like you are now. Some men do care whether a woman has smaller breasts. Some other men prefer breasts that way. So it's a matter of personal tastes. But it's also a matter of accepting yourself as you are. Women who are insecure are not attractive; women who can be happy and feel sexy are always pursued, no matter their looks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): At 14 you should not be thinking about sex!
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