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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Do I back off and hope he'll approach me? Or do I make a move and tell him how I feel? Eight year age difference.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - I have posted about this before so some of you may be familiar with my story. Just need a bit more advice. I met a guy, he is a PT at my gym. Cutting a long story short. There seems to be an attraction due to the way he looked at me. I did not li...

She showed me her nude pictures. Does this mean she likes me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

28 September 2016 (M) - A little about us, we are both 21, study at the same university and are very close to each other. We study together, eat together, hang out it the same group most of the time. Last week we were doing an assignment at her place. Actually there w...

Should I wait for him to develop feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - I proposed a boy... at first he accepted, but then he wanted time from me... He told that he hasn't that kind of feelings for me, even he said, from the beginning he thought me as as a sister... so he needed time to grow his feelings... but...

Should I act now? I don't want things to go too far, but I like my tutor and I think he likes me. What should I do...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

28 September 2016 (F) - I'm a 24 year old girl who just started college 6 months ago. For the last 3 months I've been getting help from a tutor in a class that I had trouble keeping up in. The tutors at my college are students that have shown excellence in their past mon...

Should I back off and forget about him or am I being a bit dramatic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

26 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I really fancy this guy at work, the other girls have been trying to set us up for months but we're both a bit shy so nothing's ever happened. We were out with everyone from work a couple of weeks ago and he told one of the girls he was inte...

Lots of issues... Younger girlfriend, torrid past, immature, we're not gelling sexually... What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

24 September 2016 (M) - So I'm 30 dating a 24 year old and I'm finding it very difficult in a few ways. One that bothers me is how many guys and the caliber of guys she's been with before me. Since we've been dating she has told me some stories and it raised some red ...

Do you think she sees a future with us at some point? How can I get things moving forward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

23 September 2016 (M) - Hi there. I have a problem with a girl that I have lost all my hang ups on and I have admitted to myself that I love her. I am a male in my mid 20's. Near the turn of the year I met a lovely girl and things developed quite fast. The girl had a c...

I don't want to cut all contact with him. But he has been distant with me ever since I asked if he was interested in anything serious. What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

23 September 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. I hope someone can shed some light on my situation. Recently, due to a change in jobs, my weekends are free, giving me more time to go out and socialise. Back in April, I went out to a local pub with my best friend where I bump...

Am I mad for wanting to be with a guy that much older than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - Hi. So as you pretty much know I'm 17. I've always had the problem of falling for older guys that I obviously can't have because of the age difference. I guess it's because I'm quite mature for my age, as I've also been told, so I'm rarely attracte...

How should I approach asking this cute girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - There's a girl in class that I've got feelings for. She's super cute and we talk a lot, as we share many interests. I know that she is bisexual, as I've asked a while back. But she is extremley shy... It's easy for me to talk to her usually,...

Could his actions when near me mean anything at all? Psychologically? Or am I being delusional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - So Today In class during a lab, the guy i am badly crushing on was standing right next to me. We attend all classes together, he almost all the time stands very quietly, but when he was standing next to me, he was moving a lot and cracking...

Crush has grown into an obsession and I need to get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - Hey, I'm 13 and currently at high school I started to like a kid a at school called Oliver and then I just thought that I was just a crush bit that was 2 and a bit years ago and I've grown obsessed I think about him all the time sometimes when I'm ...

He's married and much older.... and I've a serious crush on him. what advice can you suggest for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - Hi. So i'm sure this has been discussed countless times, but i still feel the need to get my situation out there and hear your opinions on it... So i have this guy in my life, he's my trainer of sorts, and i see him a couple times a week. He's way...

I'm besotted with a female colleague

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

18 September 2016 (M) - Hi, I'm currently married with children, happily I must add. Intimacy has been an issue between us for a longtime and not just sex but otherwise we are very happy and good together. About a week ago through the course of work I met another woman wh...

Should I separate from my husband? Or push on in what feels like a dead marriage ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

18 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my hubby for nearly 11 years now and his cousin is one of his best friends and as a product of that, his cousin is also MY best friend. In fact we are closer than my hubby and his cousin is, our style of communication is the same...

I'm married. Should I be trying to contact my school crush from many years ago?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

18 September 2016 (M) - Hi I'm about to reach my 30. I'm married and have a child. Living life happily with lovable wife. Recently, I got the contact of a girl who was my classmate in middle school. I had a crush on her but it was untold as my family moved out of tow...

He runs hot or cold. Should I continue to pursue him, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

17 September 2016 (M) - Hello agony aunts and uncles, I am a 26 year old gay man in the need of advice. My story begins with a man that messaged me from afar on a dating app. In the beginning, I thought it was just going to be a long distance kind of thing that would fa...

Meeting with the only guy in my life I never got bored of

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

17 September 2016 (F) - Hello agony aunts! I am 27 living in Europe. I'm asking for advice with regard to my longest crush ever. When I was 20 years old, I went into yahoo chatrooms and met D. We started chatting and just LOVED talking to him. Initially he hadnt taken m...

I feel sad that he lost all interest. What can I do to avoid this happening again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - I need some advice! A few months ago I started a relationship with my housemate but it didn't work out, and I'm worried it's because I freaked him out and made him pull away. I'd love to know how best to move on and learn from this. So we were onl...

My married BF doesn't want his wife to know about us until he has removed all his belongings from his former home. Seems he cares more about his belongings than me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

14 September 2016 (F) - Ok so here is my dilemma I am 29 dating my friend who is married he is 30 and his twin brother who is also 30. Ok so how this happened was I just recently moved back home and I ran into an old friend of mine that I have had a crush on since I ...

I get so emotional I cry about this crush almost every day! How should I tell this single man I have a crush on him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

14 September 2016 (F) - I have been thinking of leaving my job and returning to full time education to start my career, however, I have been having a big crush on my male colleague for almost three years now. I really like him and he is always on my mind. He is so handsome ...

His comments to his friend about this girl make me extremely uncomfortable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

14 September 2016 (F) - Hi! My boyfriend lent me his cell phone and I found a conversation between him and his friend talking about a girl in his class, in the text he said he had a hot classmate and that he spent all class looking at her, he said he loved her face and ...

He's ten years younger. Should I wait for him to make the first move ? He did give me his number.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I've been single for over a year so now ready to date again. I noticed a guy who works at my gym but he never smiles. I noticed little things that he made me wonder if he fancied me. I would catch him staring or often feel him staring. He woul...

Why go through the trouble of introducing me to friends if it was just a fling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I dated this guy for about 3 weeks. In that last week, we had sex. This is something I've never, ever done before (ever!) so I can't believe I slept with him so quickly. But I did, and things kind of fizzled out after that. We haven't seen each oth...

What should I do? Have had a workplace crush on a guy for 2 years and it's ongoing.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

12 September 2016 (F) - I have been having a huge crush on my male coworker. Sometimes I feel he drops hints and signs of liking me too. He always smiles when he sees me and always says hi. I've also always felt him staring at me from afar and across the room. He's so ...

I trust my boyfriend but I'm also afraid of being hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

12 September 2016 (F) - My fiance is a personal trainer and he is crushing on one of his clients. As it is a professional relationship, I don't think anything would happen. However, we met that way initially and I'm so jealous... I work in the same building - on a ...

When does an age gap become too big?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

11 September 2016 (F) - How big do you think age gaps in relationships should be? In all kinds of relationships: friendships, romantic relationships, sex buddies. Do generational differences get in the way? When does an age gap become too much to relate to someone in ...

Crushing on someone 31 years older. But how can we have a future?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

11 September 2016 (F) - I am crushing very hard on a 57 year old man and he doesn't know. He's told me that he feels a "connection" to me is attracted to me and cares for me. We went out as friends and ended up talking for almost four hours in a restaurant. He was ...

Could he just be a player?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2994 days ago

9 September 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts, Ok long story short. A new guy not too long moved in the hood. He helps run a family business with his dad and bro. I am an active customer. So they are polite and never noticed me or give anything beyond the usual "Good morning/Go...

How do I approach getting her number or asking her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - all of my relationships have come from being around someone for a while before asking them out. such as school, work, gym. how do you go about asking a girl out that may not know you that well? there is a girl who i see maybe every other week...

Could this lead to more than a friendship? Do I talk to him about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) - I need advice on a confusing situation I'm currently in. I have been friends with a guy for over a year and a half now. We hangout pretty often with our common group of friends as well as just the two of us (Theater, diner, movies at either of our...

How do I cope with my troubled and tormented thoughts of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - I am a mid aged guy and 7 years ago, I began seeing a woman from work. I was separated from my wife and 2 teenage girls but used to still see my wife on a friendly basis and help her out and still occasionally had sex with her. The woman is m...

Am I just the side chick? How can I go forward when he treats me as just a friend, never his GF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) - It has been a while that I have written on this. So, there is this guy I've known for the last three years of high school and we've kept contact streaming into the life of college. Throughout the years I 've known him since high school we've man...

Do I break up with L and choose an untested but potentially amazing relationship with S ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

5 September 2016 (M) - Three years ago I met S., and we dated for a little while before he said that he wasn't ready for a relationship because he was getting over a recent breakup. Over the next year, he kept changing his mind between wanting to be friends and wanting ...

Does he care? Or am I crazy? Am I obsessed with him? Or am I just in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - It's taken me a Few moments to figure out how I should ask my question, but the Fact is The question Is just as confusing as the story..... A couple Of months ago I met this guy, I had just gotten out of a relationship Three months prior to the ...

I'm stuck in a lie to 2 women. Now confused and missing my daughter. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

4 September 2016 (M) - Hi agony aunts, I have a problem and I'm sorry if this is long. I was married to a girl who is from a different country - we met when she was studying. Fast Forward two years and I married to her. We had a child who is now 18 months but my wi...

Is she in to me and how do I approach her? What can I say to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

4 September 2016 (M) - Hey. So I'm back again because I got some good advice the last 2 times I posted on here so I'm hoping for more. So as I first said I'm a African American age 19. In one of my college classes, one of my college classes, there's a girl who on the firs...

Having trouble reading the signs. Help. Does he really like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - Hi everyone! So I have a basic question to ask you guys, do you think he likes me? I usually wouldn't ask something like this but I cannot read this guy at all, so thank you all for your help in advanced. Anyways I have known this guy for almost two ...

How do I seduce my female college professor?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - I honestly think this is fate. I'm a college freshman, I was dreading my 4hr class with a professor I heard was tough and moody. I get to class and it's this young beautiful short girl with big curly hair. I immediately raise my hand and tell her ...

Has this instant connection got a future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

3 September 2016 (M) - Several years ago I started dog-sitting for a couple, grew close to their dogs, and eventually them. I have since been through the death of one of the dogs, and the adoption of another. More importantly, I have become rather close to the husba...

Has my teacher got a thing for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

3 September 2016 (F) - Let's call him Mr. Jones. Well, Jones started teaching at my school when I was a freshman. (I'm 16, he is 23) I am now a junior and this is my first year taking his class. Every girl thinks he is gorgeous, which he is, and I would notice him always ...

Attracted to an older guy, how do I encourage him to be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - Hello. I need help with this guy.. So im attracted to an older guy. Im 21 and he is 35. We ironically have the same birthday so we are exactly 14 years apart. Since ive met him, ive always felt like there was an attraction between us.. ...

How does one juggle switching back and forth between feeling romantically towards someone and feeling platonic instead sometimes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Has anyone else had issues with switching back and forth between feeling romantically towards someone and feeling platonically? I broke up with my boyfriend over the summer because over the summer, we're long distance and that's hard, and I felt l...

Is it a big waste of time trying to get back together? Will I be emotionally hurt again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Me and my ex have began talking a little again.. This is after I text him saying that I did miss and love him and he replied saying that he misses me but there just always seems to be a bad vibe about us and we can't seem to get along. We plan t...

He's married. Wondering why he acted like that? Was he testing me, or was he seeing me as a potential client?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I just wanted to hear others opinion about this scenario. I'm single mom, professional and attractive as others say. I am not dating and not interested in dating even after 3 years of my divorce. I always get attention and I don't care about...

Now he wants to now "start over and fresh"? what's happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - So I asked almost the same question before, but some things have changed and I don't know what to do. Im a freshman in high school and there is this guy who is a sophomore. When i was in middle school and he was a freshman, we dated 2 times fo...

Does she hate me? Or is she tired of me, now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - Hello. I have a lesbian friend, let's say her name is “X”. Me and “X” are close friends. Then, suddenly she admits that she likes me and I laugh coz I like her too. We became so close. She's flirting with me and I did the same. We both decided ...