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writes:There's a girl in class that I've got feelings for. She's super cute and we talk a lot, as we share many interests. I know that she is bisexual, as I've asked a while back. But she is extremley shy... It's easy for me to talk to her usually, but not to tell her how I feel. I feel awkward asking her out, any advice on how to do it?
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reader, WickedPoet  +, writes (13 February 2017):
 A lot of guys have this issue and they are much older than you. Once guys develop feelings for a particular woman the tendency is to put them on a pedestal. When that happens the only way the woman can see you is to look down at you. I don't think you want to be in that position. If you think you don't deserve to be with her she will eventually agree as behavior tends to become clingy and needy in these situations. That will start to make her feel trapped and she will end things. Just treat her like the friends you are. Do something fun where you can laugh and she will get to see you in a new light. Do not try to lock her into a relationship. This is just a fun experience not an attempt to define your futures. Just be confident and know you deserve to be with a girl like this. Let her come to you. Don't force things. Good luck.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 September 2016):
 why don't you ask her out to lunch or to go to the cinema or something. You don't need to tell her straight away that you like her but maybe spend more time with her outside of school and get to know her better.
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