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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

How do I cope with these feelings I have for one of my best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3735 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I've been really good friends with one of my best friends for over 5 years now. She is a wonderful person inside and out. I've always thought very much of her and I have to admit I think I love her. She makes me laugh so much when I'm with her and ...

I'm mad about a girl who almost never replies to my messages!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

30 September 2014 (M) - Went on a date with an amazing girl, first date went OK, she wanted to see me again, but two months later and at least two rain checks, she says she's not interested in seeing me again. Never did get to see her again. Almost a year later, iv b...

So I like this guy, but I have a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - So, I like this guy. A lot. And I think he might like me back! But the thing is, that I have a boyfriend already, and we are kind of growing apart. I never see him anymore, and I think we both just want space... Should I tell him that it isn't ...

I would like to reconnect with my ex. Is it significan that he never changed his passwords when we brokeup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - hi...i wanna know about my ex...we had broken about 2years but i still love my ex and i wanna get him back... i don't know his mind but he never changed all of the pass the accounts password even when we were apart...he blocked my acc but he never...

Questions about crushes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

30 September 2014 (M) - Hi again I'm back with another question that's been bugging me. How often do girls crush? So like they are with their friends and about ten different guys enter the conversation does that mean they like them all and just exactly how easy is it to ...

Is my husband of 20 years getting ready to have another affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - my husband has contacted an old flame on facebook said he has been very happy with me, but after 20 years things are not what they used to be. He told this person he has been searching for her for 20 years and has never been so happy to see anyo...

I know he's a player but my gut says he really likes me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - ok so here goes.. I met this guy in march just after i broke up with my ex and we hit it off straight away! its like we just had this little spark as soon as we met each other. I knew he was a player from the beginning and had commitment issues b...

Is there any other way to handle the situation considering how strict my parents are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hello :) This guy really likes me and he even said "I love you" to me and I'm actually really into this guy. We started off really good friends and we found that we have a lot in common. We actually tried dating and it lasted for 7 months but a...

How can I encourage this girl to want to show more interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3736 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - I'm fond of a girl.. She is in my school and we've known each other for 5 years. I love her. Though she didn't know about this till a few months back. In grade 6, we used to sit together as our teacher had made it so.. I stood 1st then and she...

My friends say I can have my pick of girls here but I've fallen for this American

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

28 September 2014 (M) - Thanks for reading. It's quite funny as I always get asked for advice and I'm normally good at giving it but this time I need some help. I live in London and vacation in Florida every year. I came back 3 days ago and I'm miserable as hell. I met...

Do you think this could go anywhere? Should I try holding his hand? Or is he the one who is supposed to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - We're from the same city, we go to the same university in a different country, I'm a freshman, he's a senior. We started talking back in May, after I got accepted to this university. We live really close to each other back home, so we went out quite ...

I told her I had a crush and now I don't know if she hates me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - so, I have had this crush on one of my female friends,who i will refer 2 as SN, for months now, and i had only told 1 person im a bi female, my best friend. SN is one of my best friends 2 other best friends.So anyway, i got sick of keeping it from ...

Does my friend want to have sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

27 September 2014 (M) - I have a woman friend I've only known for about a year. She's unhappily married I am in the process of divorce. We seem to hit it off and meet as part of a small group of friends. Another friend noticed how we seem to have some attraction for each ...

I'm in love with my cousin and want to get rid of these feelings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, i think i maybe be in love or infatuated with my cousin. Him and i met at a funeral a couple of months ago, the attraction from my side was instant, we didn't know we were related.We exchanged numbers and have been in constant contact ...

I have a crush on my boss and don't want to regret not telling her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

27 September 2014 (M) - I'm 39 and my boss (owner) is 44. I have been at my job for 5 yrs and I have had a crush on her ever since, she has not dated anyone in the time I have been there, it breaks my heart knowing she goes home by herself and eats dinner or watches tv by ...

Old flame returns! What to say or do? He wants to be friends but he doesn't want his wife to get hurt??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - I was contacted by my first love on facebook. He said he was happily married on facebook as am I; Our relationship was 33 years ago. We dated as teens and were in love till he went away to school he said we should date others and didn't want t...

Why are people trying to match make? I enjoy flirting and dating but no exclusively. But don't want to be available for sex. Is that so difficult?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Please help me! I am so sick of people trying to play match maker but every group of friends I've had and even random co workers and relatives and people I go to church with are always trying HARD to set me up with someone. I have had a lot ...

I lied with a fake ID and fake photo. Now he knows the truth he's blocked me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - I love a guy bt I sent him fake photos and used to speak to him using a fake id. we are in a long distance relationshp for 6 months. He is the son of my friend and her neighbour.. He knows my sister because my sister lives same place as my friend...

I have a girlfriend but want the woman I am infatuated with at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

26 September 2014 (M) - Ok ladies AND gents. This is a long one but please bare (bear?) with me. I have put myself in such a terrible situation and even though I know this I do not stop my actions probably due to my selfish, pig, insecurities and attitude. I don't k...

I like my best friend, but it's complicated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - To get straight to the point, I have a pretty big crush on my best friend, but I'm not sure how he feels. My friendship group is a quite big one - there are around 30 of us - and both my ex-boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are in this group. Me a...

I want her to reconsider just being friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - Me and this girl were in a relationship at the end of last year and she ended it because she didn't think we were right for each other and also because she needed to sort her head out. Last week she wanted to give it another go saying how she made...

She likes romance -- what about this idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - I have an idea I would like some feedback for? This girl I like likes romance a lot so I have been thinking of a way to just do that. I thought about leaving notes around school in places that I know she will look. I'm shy but I can get over that if ...

What to do? I can't forget him. Yet now I am not the sort of girl he would go for.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3742 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - *Am currently in a long term serious relationship* When I started high school I was instantly attracted to this boy who was not in my circle of friends or in any of my classes. He just started saying "HI" to me every time he saw me. In high school...

The Guy I Like Has A Girlfriend :( How To Get Over Him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - So, yeah, I'm 21 and recently met this guy who's in his mid-thirties through a friend. I really liked him (though we're just acquaintances), but I just heard my friend mention his girlfriend in conversation with someone else. This always, ALWAYS ...

Wanting to become friends or does he like me more than that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm not sure whether a guy likes me or not. He is not the type to flirt, is shy, and is really only friendly to girls and as far as I know doesn't show interest romantically in them, and I'm pretty certain he's not...

My best friend treats me differently now that he's in a serious relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi , I've been friends with this guy forever and now we're bestfriends.he always wanted a relationship with me but I refused cause I didn't want to ruin our friendship, now he hav found this girl who is serious about him, he starts treating me ...

Have a Mega crush on him. How can I get over him, and talk to him in a mature way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - I'm just going to put this out there straight away - I'm 15 and the guy I am hopelessly head over heels in love with is 22. I think about him all the time, he's the hottest guy I've ever seen and I don't know what to do. He's totally out of my le...

Need help on how to handle my Bf's mixed feelings. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - This is basically about my ex-boyfriend. Recently I had came in contact with my ex-boyfriend The reason we broke up before is because he moved back to his hometown, and I didn't think a long distance relationship would have been fair. We were ...

I really like her but the mixed message tell me it's better to forget her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3745 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid.. So here it goes, I've basically really fancied this girl for around 2 years, it's like I'm obsessed with her. We went on a weekend away in a group of about 20, and because we were dancing really close one night, and texting and flirting ...

Does he really want a teacher or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - I met this guy at my campus library and were talking about the different volunteer programmes we're both involved in. We are now on facebook and have been talking on and off (cause I've been busy) for the last 3 days. He then mentions that hes been ...

I'm not certain that he likes me in "that way"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - For the past six months I have been working as a secretary to a doctor (he's only temporary). Anyways, we have kind of flirted with each other - prolonged eye contact, lingering around talking about stuff non-work related. When I took the work ...

He likes me or not? He still have feelings for his ex? So confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - Here is a guy at my class that I think he likes me. He does tease me sometimes and stuff and gives me some signs that he likes me. Well he once asked for my friend to move so he would sit next to me. Sometimes he tries to make me jealous so he flirt ...

It seems like he's hiding behind his social awkwardness

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - Dear cupids. I need some advice. I have liked this guy for quite a long time now... Over a few years the timing has seemed all wrong. It has generally been that he likes me more than i like him. Last year we had a brief fling, and then his ...

He likes me as a colleague but I don't know about more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - A male co worker and I get on really well at work. I just feel this chemistry with him I've not felt before. I can't work him out though, he always nice to me, has a joke with me asks me to do things for him. He asks me a lot about myself. He's ...

I'm scared to get hurt again but I think I'm starting to feel something for my friend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - I just came from a very bad case of unrequited love. I've been trying to get over the guy for almost two years.That guy was also the first guy I ever liked and loved so it's been two difficult years of emotional pain and ugly crying. But just five ...

What would you do at work with the person who broke your trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3748 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - I got played but now its about how to finally move on. I liked a guy for two years at work who honestly i thought and felt , felt the same. The other day going to a friend wedding i over heard to people we know basically sl agging me off sayin...

LDR--Does he like me or just trying to impress me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3747 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - I have fallen for a man miles away. He tries to say things in many languages and change up how he says goodbye. He shows more interest now than ever in talking and wanting to meet up. I was wondering if this is a sign that he likes me or if he is ...

Is it alright to like get back with your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Is it alright to like get back with your ex? Some people say it's not a good idea but I feel like there isn't any harm in giving a second chance. However, I asked my teacher whose quite an expert about it and he said that people tend to fall bac...

Is my personal trainer interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Hello, Today was my third work out with my personal trainer, I didnt know this personal trainer since before. Last week on the second work out I saw him tickle his sensitve area a little now and then. I pretented to not see him dong it...

I'd like to discover more about this guy at work and have some fun. Can I consider that, and yet not hurt my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 1/2 years. I love him and that I could possibly have a life with him. But over this past year those feelings haven't been as strong and I've thought about leaving him at times. I have now found out th...

My married female teacher is about 28 and she finds many opportunities to touch me. I like it. Is this OK? Does it make me a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I am a student, 19 years old, good in studies. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. I have a teacher in my college,she is married and has a year old son. she may be of 28 or 29 years of age. she is a good teacher. she is very friendly...

Mixed signals, so does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

9 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I'm 18 and I'm unsure if a guy likes me or not because he sends mixed signals. Sometimes he barely acknowledges me and doesn't bother and looks completely uninterested as he doesn't attempt to make conversation at all. However, other times, ...

Crazy about this woman at work ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (M) - I'm crazy about this woman at work. I have been for many years, and she knows it. She can seem to read my every thought while I can never seem to know what she's thinking or where I stand. Sometimes I think she's just as crazy about me, other times ...

Broke off my engagement because of a huge crush on my dentist. What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - Really need some advice please. I was due to get married next year and in preparation for the wedding I decided to get my teeth straightened. The initial dentist I opted to go for couldn't fit me in so referred me to another dentist- ...

Run or fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - Well I have sure landed myself in a situation. It all started about 7 months ago. A male friend of mine had a girl friend that I was instantly attracted to. It was clear she had feelings for me as well, even though she is straight. When w...

Why do guys seem to act weird around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Okay so there is a guy at my class that has been acting weird. I think he likes mme because I noticed some signs. Well he always glance at me and we once hold the gaze for five seconds. Then he looked away awkwardly. He sits in front of me in my ...

He's hot one day and cold the next. Is this FWB going stale or does he want it to become more than FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - I was wondering if anyone could give me an outside perspective of my puzzling situation. I'm 24yrs old and have what I assume to be a friends with benefits with a guy 16yrs my senior. We started hanging out 2months ago. we clicked instantly ...

Decision-making help needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

6 September 2014 (?) - I'm 26 years old female and have a dismissive-avoidant attachment style. At the age of 14-19 I had an older guy friend who I was obsessively in love with, like if he asked me to ditch my whole family and friends and run away with him I'd most likely ...

My crush likes my friend instead... should I still try to impress him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, Oh gosh, so I have an enormous crush on a boy in my grade. I have just started high school with him and we talk often enough. However, today he told me he liked another girl, one of my closest friends. What do I do? I want to impress ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - I've liked this boy in my year who i've really liked since year 7. I'm now in year 9. I'm not sure if he likes me. Everyone says he's cocky, but he's always nice to me. He holds the door open, helps me out a lot and he always stares at me. The thing ...