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writes:Is it alright to like get back with your ex? Some people say it's not a good idea but I feel like there isn't any harm in giving a second chance. However, I asked my teacher whose quite an expert about it and he said that people tend to fall back together unless one of you does something unforgivable which I actually thought about for a while and it actually seemed reasonable. And right now, me and him are happy and it feels as if all the bad things are gone. Any opinions? :) thank you x
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reader, Vianneeey +, writes (18 September 2014):
You broke up with him for a reason. Has that reason been solved? If not, you will break up again and it's gonna be all over again.
If you decided to get back together, you have to have an agreement that whatever happen in the past, stay in the past and not to be mentioned again.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 September 2014):
 fool me once shame on you
fool me twice shame on me.
if the reason you broke up was not abuse or drugs or lies or trust issues... then a second go round is probably ok to test the waters BUT be aware
that most folks break up for good reasons and trying it again unless the reason for the break up has been fixed then it won't work.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (16 September 2014):
 People make mistakes or freak out when feelings get too overwhelming. You have to make sure breaking up does not become a habit because the more you do it, the wider the distance you create in the future. It's better to talk about it and resolve or take a day or two to breathe. After taking a break it puts people back in perspective and realize the relationship wasn't so bad after all. It makes you miss the other person and not want to lose him/her. However it's never a good idea to use breakups as a threat to change one's behavior, when you can't go through with it and make it permanent.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (16 September 2014):
 No harm in getting back with the ex as long as the issues that led to the break up have been resolved and history will not repeat itself. Every relationship is different, so getting back with ex may works and then there are those that don't. If its what you want go for it. Don't over analyse and justify what you should or should not be doing we are creatures that are run by emotions and sometimes not everything can be explained.
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