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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I got played but now its about how to finally move on.I liked a guy for two years at work who honestly i thought and felt , felt the same.The other day going to a friend wedding i over heard to people we know basically sl agging me off saying "hes not coming".He had told them he had asked to be taken off a case with me, when in actual fact i had begged our manager on three occasion for this but he wouldn't let me go.That was a year ago but they mentioned it last week and he has portrayed to them that im the young girl besotted with him. It hurts....i've now gone on dates with other guys and today i did briefly talk but otherwise no eye contact.but then he stares more.i cant talk to him about it, i feel numb :(
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 September 2014):
 So your crush didn't like you back, IT HAPPENS - doesn't mean it doesn't hurt.
The fact that he is talking crap about you to others is a bad sign and rather unprofessional of him.
My advice if anyone comes up and tells you he said this or that tell them he is full of hot air. And then CONFRONT him. Ask him to stop "slagging" off on you.
You thought he was a nice guy and you liked him, turns out he is an asshat who doesn't have the cojones to TELL you himself that he isn't interested. What a wuss. My guess is he LIKES the idea of you DOTING on him, but wants to seem like he doesn't care. Ego boost thing. Doesn't mean he actually CARE, he just likes the attention.
Unless you HAVE to talk to him at work ignore him, as best as you can just pretend you don't give a crap. Sooner or later you will realize that you don't give a crap! If he starts to be all nice, walk away.
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