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writes:Went on a date with an amazing girl, first date went OK, she wanted to see me again, but two months later and at least two rain checks, she says she's not interested in seeing me again. Never did get to see her again. Almost a year later, iv been on a good few dates, but can't get this girl out of my head. I send her a message saying how amazingly beautiful she is, because she really is! And I ask if we can get together again, much to my surprise, she says yes! But that was now a month ago, and she almost never replies to my messages :/ She is a very busy professional, but can anyone be that busy? Not sure what to make of it, I'm mad about her though!Any advice would be much appreciated! Reply to this Question
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reader, ImissFuturama  +, writes (2 October 2014):
 There is nothing more you can do. You can't make someone like you. Besides, there are plenty of other "amazingly beautiful" women out there. You don't need her. I think you're mistaking wanting her approval as still having feelings for her. She rejected you with no explanation, and that's the only reason she's still on your mind. Trust me on this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2014): Messaging her out of the blue like that with an outrageous comment about her appearance (you might think it's a compliment) is pretty inappropriate. She might just be saying yes because she can't say no. If she really wanted to see you, she would see you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 October 2014):
 I think you HAVE to accept that she isn't interested. Trying every few months to catch her attention is silly.SHE isn't interested and YOU are wasting your time on this one.
Let her go.
How would you feel if some girl you had NO interest in kept chasing you?
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