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writes:Me and this girl were in a relationship at the end of last year and she ended it because she didn't think we were right for each other and also because she needed to sort her head out. Last week she wanted to give it another go saying how she made a mistake and wanted to try again. Now, her working hours have disrupted our plans on a few occasions we mutually agreed to end it for now and try later. However, I may have held on a bit too much and now I'm back to square one because she doesn't think it's meant to be. But we are good friends and when we were together we were strong. I really need your help to bring her around and see that we are actually good together despite our differences in personality. Hope you can help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Katie-Lynn  +, writes (23 September 2014):
 Looks to me as if she wants to sort out her future and life before having a relationship and I have friends who are like this so it's common. I'm really sorry that this is happening to you. Maybe you should tell her that you support her with whatever she does for her future and life. Also tell her everything you had just said such as you really love her and believe you two are great together but you will also wait for her to prove that you have patience and willing to give her the space that she needs. See how she reacts. If she says something along the lines of not seeing herself with you then thats when you have to move on. Best of luck to you.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 September 2014):
 You are stuck in indecision, this relationship is not going to be a normal one why not just forget about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2014): If she's not 100% committed to your relationship then you might not be able to change her mind. Technically, it's not exactly about her mind, it's more her heart, if her heart is in it then she'll come to you, but if she's not fully into the idea of being in a relationship then you won't talk her round.
Perhaps try working your schedule around hers a little more to involve yourself more in her life, that way, if she still has reasons not to see you then you can accept it and possibly move on.
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