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writes:Hi again I'm back with another question that's been bugging me. How often do girls crush? So like they are with their friends and about ten different guys enter the conversation does that mean they like them all and just exactly how easy is it to crush or feel like that guy is definitely not going to get rejected? Also how can you tell if a girl is crushing on you? I've looked everywhere but every site says she ll be looking at you. Well I get a ton if girls giving more than second glances but yeah I thought any girl did that. So did I overlook that or do tons of girls like me? any tips on what you do or did in teen years to get a guys attention is much appreciated. Thanks everyone.
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reader, Via F.  +, writes (2 October 2014):
 I agree with honeypie. It's really hard to tell.Look, it differs from some girls to the other. One might straight up flirt with you, batting her eyelashes or other gross stuff I don't bother with. Some girls will keep quiet and be shy, maybe you'll catch them looking at you. That same type might actually be very outgoing, but is just shy in these situations. If the girl starts whispering and is looking at you, they are talking about you. (My friend does this)The other type of girl is a rare type of realistic. She's herself around you, and she doesn't even show that she likes you. She thinks, Oh, If I'm myself he'll like me for who I am. It works sometimes.Just because a girl and a guy are having a conversation DOES NOT (and I say does not) mean she likes that guy. All my friends are guys, and most of them are like brothers to me. And don't assume that just because a girl is talking to you means that she likes you. Trust me on this one. It is VERY EASY to get a crush on someone. Liking someone could be jus because of looks or personality, or both. The way I would think a boy wouldn't get rejected I that if the girl already tells you she likes you and you like her back. But that's a given.And dude, stop worrying about girls. Just calm down. You pull out a really good personality (which is YOUR personality, not a fake one.) And you're bound to attract someone.
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reader, Strong Sophie  +, writes (1 October 2014):
Hiya! Crushes are always a strong topic of conversation. It is a hard one to depict but being a girl I'll try help you out. We don't crush all the time. We'll say three guys (for example) that we think are hot or good looking but that doesn't necessarily mean we are crushing on them. It just means we like the look of them. If a girl likes you, you'll know. From my experience I always end up giggling or playing with my hair. Those are 2 signs of a girl being nervous around a guy in a flirty way, meaning she likes you. Playing with hair is usually depicted as a flirty thing because it allows the guy to look at their face. A girl looking at you is not a 100% sign unfortunately. I look at guys when I'm walking home because they're in front of me; not because I'm crushing. If you like a girl look at the way she acts around other guys. If she only appears to be giggling around you then you may be in there! Another thing i used to do was I'd always make sure I was touching the guys arm or leg. It lets the guy know subtly that there is some kind of connection there.I hope this is helpful. If you like a girl just try and see what happens! You never know :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 September 2014):
 I don't think there is any "official studies or date on teen girl crushes".
Many times girls will crush on the UTTERLY UNAVAILABLE guys, because it's EASIER living this little fantasy life (crush) where some guy is the "perfect" man then dealing with "real live" boys, who are less than perfect.
A crush is a fantasy. And this is why they often go down in flames when it comes out. Because ONE person having a crush on another DOESN'T mean that the other person FEELS the same. And reality doesn't live up to the fantasy - thus.. CRUSH!
Some girls are subtle with whom they crush on. Some are not. So if a girl is crushing on you, you might not even know. UNLESS... SHE wants you to know.
Girls talk about boy and other girls. Because WE like to analyse things to pieces. So if they talk about 10 different boys they aren't "crushing" on them all, but they might find them all a tad interesting.
If you are sitting and waiting for SOME girl to have a crush on you, so you can reciprocate.. YOU are wasting your time.
If you like a girl, talk to her. Get to know her. IF she is interested SHE will want to talk to you too. JUST learn WHEN and HOW to approach her.
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