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writes:Hello, I'm 18 and I'm unsure if a guy likes me or not because he sends mixed signals. Sometimes he barely acknowledges me and doesn't bother and looks completely uninterested as he doesn't attempt to make conversation at all. However, other times, like the other day, I catch him checking me out,teasing me and asking questions out of the blue about me whilst fixing his hair.Its like this often, so I'm confused and have settled for thinking we are just on friendly terms at the moment. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2014): Hi, i'm in a similiar situation. I really like this guy and hes told me he wants a relationship but then after we last met (ten days ago) hes text me once! If a guy likes you, i think he will make it obvious. He will txt you every day whenever he can and tell you exactly how he feels. If he plays hot and cold he isnt worth it. Focus on yourself and remember that hes the one who has missed out. Not you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2014): Thank you all, he isn't much of talker anyway and doesn't show interest in anyone usually. That's why I was curious. I will just take it with a pinch of salt and be friends.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 September 2014):
 I think he is just being friendly as well.
I don't think if a guy is interested he will totally ignore you from time to time, that is the perfect way to get "friend - zoned".
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 September 2014):
 I think when you experience 'mixed signals' from a guy you have a crush on, it means that you are looking for something in your interactions with him that means he likes you.
If you do not have a crush on him then you would most likely not even notice these 'mixed signals' because you don't care if he likes you or not.
From what you've indicated about his actions--he ignores you most of the time, then checks you out and jokes with you while he fixes his hair--I would assume that's he's just being social with you because you are there, he will do the same thing with any other female in the seat you are sitting in.
If I were your age I might be looking for some secret signal hoping against hope that this guy liked me.... I know how that felt. "My crush! He looked at me! omg he must like me! Nooooo! He doesn't! Omg! Why not? Wait! He's looking at me again, he does like me!"
What you present as evidence of his possible signal to you? It means nothing. He's just being nice and it means nothing. I'm sorry. I would let it go and ignore him for a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2014): His just friendly and a big flirt and sometimes we girls misinterpret guy behavior.
How would u know if he Really likes you?
If his consistent in showing interest in you like if he text or calls you everyday and ask you out.
Most of all, you dont have to wonder because he will Tell You, he likes you.
If his giving cold and hot treatment.
Its nothing. Dont take him seriously.
Remember the only time you should take guys seriously is onced they have proven to you that they are time worthy.
If not. Its trash talk. Find someone else.
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reader, missy_25 +, writes (10 September 2014):
Yes this is tough. If you can control your emotions try NOT to be emotionally involved with him. I have fallen for the same trick. This guy keeps teasing me until my heart fell for his charm. Now I'm miserable because he likes me but not enough to want to commit to me. He was just having fun with my companionship. I wish I had kept my distance because now, I'm a mess. I think the guy may like you but is unsure how much and so he tries to stay away also.
Focus on yourself and studies, if a guy comes along. It will be someone who is worth thinking about and be inspired from. Don't waste your time on guys who just wants you for sex or attention and nothing more with depth and honesty and trust.
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